48 years old & still getting helped by mom & dad..

JINKSTER

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Well folks?..I guess the times they are a gett'in tougher...in my late 20's?...I lived like a monk and worked and saved my azz off to come up with a 20% fixed rate downpayment for my first new home...had it built in '89...a cute 'lil affordable 3/2/1...on a lot in what usta be the boonies....fast forward 18 years, 1 marriage, 3 daughters, 5 lay-offs, numerous hurricanes later and one bad choice of siding on a wood frame house?..and this usta be what was left of the freaking ruff-x (masonite) siding on my home...

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Lots of rot at the foundation...lots of mia and destroyed sophoting from the florida hurricanes...18 years later and 48 years old working 55 hours a week making the same money as i did when i was 30 and falling deeper and deeper into depression..house falling apart...no cash for repairs and no time or energy to do the job even if i could afford to buy the materials...and it was like a knife through my heart when my daughters told me they're gonna staop inviting friends over cause...

"It looks like we live in a crack house"
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Meanwhile?...my parents have been riding me hard about maintaining my home over the years...with my desperation falling upon deaf ears..my busa?..my only release and escape from my borderline poverty level reality that was home to me..the longest i ever lived in any one place...so?...my parents...who were graced enough to live life during some years of properity in this country informed me that they agree..i got it tough...working hard...raising a family...and fight'in bills...and here came the calvary...dad dipped into his 401k...1st for him and my mother to take yet another cruise to alaska out of seattle and 2nd?...to help me out by paying for the re-siding and new sopheting of my close to condemed home...but not any more!
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HardiPlank all over baby!....and for bonus points?...my loving parents even showed up with a new front door they sprung for!
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and now?...I get to spend my memorial day weekend...painting.
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But it's all good!
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L8R, Bill.
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Any good news, positive things happening in your life? Seems like all your post are negative. Has to be something good going for you or you must be on tons of medication for anti-depression. Not sure why one guy has such bad luck...hope things get better before they get any worse. For the record there are people with full blown aids, cancer, one arm, and one leg, homeless and so forth. So cheer up..............
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Stick it out bud, I remember when I was an e-2 in the Marines, married to my e-2 in the Navy wife with our first child, living in a slum, standing in a food line to get milk, because I didn't have enough money for both milk and diapers. Wow, 2 kids, a career, 3 jobs later, and now my wife is a doc, I manage a construction division, and I'm riding a new Busa. Life is great, and you and I, we are all blessed.
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(GPW @ May 19 2007,11:38) Any good news, positive things happening in your life? Seems like all your post are negative. Has to be something good going for you or you must be on tons of medication for anti-depression. Not sure why one guy has such bad luck...hope things get better before they get any worse. For the record there are people with full blown aids, cancer, one arm, and one leg, homeless and so forth. So cheer up..............
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wtf?....i'm all happy about my new siding..posting with pix and smileys and you respond like that?....

Dr. Phil you ain't.
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PS: Hint: Flaming me with an out in left field rant didn't help cheer me up either.
 
(BusaBret @ May 19 2007,13:02) Your folks sound like GOOD PEOPLE.
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   Your a lucky man!
Yes they are and yes i am..and?...thanks man..it appears gpw tried to kick this off down a bad path...i appeciate you straightening it out with sumpt'in positive!
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That's great. It's hard to find things in life that are much more important than a loving family.
your folks sound very nice and kind. And you sound like you're a pretty caring parent yourself.
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(JINKSTER @ May 19 2007,19:59)
(GPW @ May 19 2007,11:38) Any good news, positive things happening in your life? Seems like all your post are negative. Has to be something good going for you or you must be on tons of medication for anti-depression. Not sure why one guy has such bad luck...hope things get better before they get any worse. For the record there are people with full blown aids, cancer, one arm, and one leg, homeless and so forth. So cheer up..............
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wtf?....i'm all happy about my new siding..posting with pix and smileys and you respond like that?....

Dr. Phil you ain't.
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PS: Hint: Flaming me with an out in left field rant didn't help cheer me up either.
Meh, just let it slide Bill... Things come and go. Some people don't realize that some of us like to vent on the board, cause, it's the only place we can or we feel comfortable doing it. And? I'm happy for you being happy about this bro. Have fun painting!  
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Good to hear your house is getting fixed. Family is there when you need them.

I can relate to the 5 layoffs, been there and done that...
 
okay..i closed all windows and browser but can still only see 12 of 20 here.
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(GPW @ May 20 2007,04:38) Any good news, positive things happening in your life? Seems like all your post are negative. Has to be something good going for you or you must be on tons of medication for anti-depression. Not sure why one guy has such bad luck...hope things get better before they get any worse. For the record there are people with full blown aids, cancer, one arm, and one leg, homeless and so forth. So cheer up..............
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Here we go again! WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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