Do you chase your dreams

WWJD

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If you remember being a child at all, you will recall wishing to emulate amazing, brave, exciting people, that help others:
"I wanna be a Policeman!"
"I wanna be a Fireman!"
"I wanna be a Doctor!"
"I wanna be a nurse!"
"I wanna be a race car driver!"
"I wanna drive a bulldozer and build big things!"

Ah, nothing can compare to the blind faith and wishfull, open minded thinking of a child full of hope and DREAMS of the future life.

As you grew, your dreams changed as you narrowed your interests and learned the truth behind the life before you. Now thoughts of being the football quarterback or moviestar or even the President come to mind. As a smaller child, the thrill of a fire truck racing by and all the lights and siren were the ultimate rush. Now, "success" has been redefined: something with a lot of publicity and money is the new DREAM. Forget that you used to completely enjoy building dams in the dirt and mud with limited resources and maximum accomplishment returns.

Through college, you were further narrowed into a specific pinpoint of chasing a particular career to earn money and get you out into the world to be a productive member of society. Now you have achived, now you have made it, NOW you are a success. Got everything under control, everything billed correctly, everything you wanted, including the wife/husband, 2.5 kids and a minivan that looks sweet and gets horrible mileage.

But what of your dreams?

Where do they fit in? Do they fit at all, or are they a forgotten avenue of creative living that was supposed to go away once successful adulthood in obtained?

How many successful adults plan to live out the rest of their life while a tiny dream withers and dies slowly, inside, only to be forgotten and reaplced by stock quotes and hurried trips to soccer practice? How many ballerinas, mountineers, dancers, artists, race car drivers, scientists will never exist from a dream unrealised?

And the final sting: How many of you wish you could go back and change some critical decisions that kept you from ever pursuing your dream?

There IS a solution.

Living inside each of us are dreams unrealized. Maybe just one, maybe hundreds. They might be dieing with each day as teh memory fades and you become more and more blended into the world your path has taken you.

Those dreams can be resurrected and put into action with the proper care and feeding, and it is only a decision away. Just decide what you like and take steps toward it.

I recall that CHASING women is almost more fun that catching them. The dreams work the same way. As long as you are taking some steps to CHASE them, it will provide in you the strength to look your dream in the face, decide to work toward it, and most of the time, if not ALL the time, you will suddenly find yourself living in your dream - side by side with your regular life - in perfect harmony. And the child in you will rejoice and make you live longer, maybe a littel harder, and even more fullfilled.

What dreams have you always wanted to pursue but for reasons that seemed beyond your control, they had to take a back seat... permenantly? Well, now you are successful, you have achieved, you got it going on, maybe now is the time to reopen that book called childhood fantasy, or youthful ideal and nurse your dreams back to life.

Many people have things missing in thier life that they just can't seem to find. And usually searching in the wrong places only numbs the senses to a point where it makes it HARDER to find or remember the quest in the first place.

Take the four step program:
1. understand that pursuing the dream is every bit as important as wanting to dream at all
2. find out EXACTLY what you want to do as your dream. write down. make it a specific point or direction
3. decide what it would take to start, and go buy or build whatever you need to launch step 2
4. set a realistic date in the next week or two, and look forward to that date.

You will not live to regret it. Actually, you might live without regret if you chase your dream.

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here I thought if I added a pretty picture that would inspire some fedback. COME ON PEOPLE! Snap out of it!

Share your dreams!

K... I'll start. My next dream is to do some body sculpting [read: tone up a little], and prep to do some mountain climbing.
Oh yeah, and ride faster than Travis on the Pocketbike race track!
 
Okay, that was lame. That's not REALLY my dreams. My REAL dream is to live writing music for fun and/or profit. I'm pretty good. Even had stuff on the radio last decade... but the feelings of writign music and finishing a song is irreplacable. VERY fulfilling. I live in a recording studio - can sleep on the couch IN the studio whenever I feel like - which was a sub dream of mine.... to be able to just wake up and write whatever, whenever. Yes, I got a full time job, but I made sacrifices to make sure my dream can ALWAYS be pursued. Maybe I'll never be famous, but just getting to do studio writing was/is/and forever will be one of my dreams come true.




Then I wanna marry Kirsten Dunst
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you're gonna have to work at that last one a little more this yr. I"m gonna push it even more this yr making it even harder.
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Keep the dream alive, friend.

Me? I'm very satisfied with where I am in life. I have become exactly what I wanted to be when I was little through a lot of hard work and dogged determination. I've got a beautiful wife and two healthy children. My only dream now is to watch them grow up and follow their own dreams.
 
Dream? To possibly open a bar in my area that people that aren't huge rednecks can go to. I was thinking something like "Hard Times". It's a sports bar/pool hall. Real cool place, nothing like near here. I think it would go over well, but money prevents it.
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I've always dreamed of opening a halfway house.




























for girls who won't go all the way.
 
I have not dreams left!  The kids and wife killed those a few months ago.  Now I just exist as a big wallet for their needs and wants.



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I am with you tru...I am a giant wallet also. My dream was being a porno star but after my audition i was told I didnt have the equipment
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I have not dreams left! The kids and wife killed those a few months ago. Now I just exist as a big wallet for their needs and wants.
They are still there... just buried. Time to dig them out, dust them off and see what can still fly.

Another part of this is recognising the TRUE achivement of these dreams, NOT the fantasy fullfillment: a reasonable subsitution for the full effect dream. you can enjoy most of your dream by getting to just part of it.

Maybe taking your busa to a few track days fullfills the Isle Of Man dream which is not too realistic [but a nice dream]. For me, I fullfilled that one with a video game where I get to see the WHOLE Isle of Man course, and ride it on a virtual bike: PS2 Suzuki TT Superbikes - same with Tourist Trophy - I ride that Busa all over the place.... just doesn't make sense to ship my Busa to SUZUKA and NURBURGRING, but I enjoy the basics
 
Actually I'm good... Sounds cheesy but at this point I refuse to tempt fate any further and ask for another helping of anything really.

I wanted to draw for a living, OK actually I wanted to make jewelry and sculpture for a living but being an Art Director <---- (New Title So I know I am cool)
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Anyway the Graphics thign is pretty damned close. I get to draw, play with photoshop and Illustrator, I get to photograph Bikini Models, and ride motorcycles and get paid to do it all...

I'm good. I could ask for 20million extra but I don't "Need" it. Yeah I dream, ALOT in Color and Sound, Very Lucid... Ya know what I dream about? Killing Aliens. Yup, Call it PTS whatever, but I spend many hours dreaming about killing aliens. Running through a vast mall , or hulking space craft hunted by thousands of Aliens. How's that for a dream. I shoot and I shoot killing by the Bushell...
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Man has to have dreams right?
 
Nah I dont chase my dreams... I have a hayabusa... I passed my dreams on one wheel, some time ago...Slow a$$ dreams.
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I have not dreams left!  The kids and wife killed those a few months ago.  Now I just exist as a big wallet for their needs and wants.
They are still there... just buried.  Time to dig them out, dust them off and see what can still fly.

Another part of this is recognising the TRUE achivement of these dreams, NOT the fantasy fullfillment:  a reasonable subsitution for the full effect dream.  you can enjoy most of your dream by getting to just part of it.

Maybe taking your busa to a few track days fullfills the Isle Of Man dream which is not too realistic [but a nice dream].  For me, I fullfilled that one with a video game where I get to see the WHOLE Isle of Man course, and ride it on a virtual bike:  PS2 Suzuki TT Superbikes - same with Tourist Trophy - I ride that Busa all over the place....  just doesn't make sense to ship my Busa to SUZUKA and NURBURGRING, but I enjoy the basics
My dreams are to do things that give me an adreneline rush. Everything I have on my list is "Off-Limits" as long as I'm still married to the wifey. Don't get me wrong. I love and care for her, but I really love to do things on the edge. She just doesn't get it, or she doesn't want to get it.
 
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