I work two jobs... My primary job's pay check is direct deposited into our checking account, I never see it. the wife uses it for running the house.
I then have a computer consulting business that I run after my normal working hours, late at night, weekends etc. This money is used to pay for my toys, it pays for my motorcycle payment and the insurance and anything else I want.
I have my own bank account for my side business so my wife pretty much never has to deal with anything about my motorcycle.
I have almost always worked two jobs, my dad has worked at least 2 jobs and some times three jobs most of his life.
You don't have to lose the Busa, just depends on how bad you want it.. But the family should always come first.
I feel pretty lucky that I have a skill that allows me to do what I do, but I think anyone can probably do stuff on the side to make extra cash. If you are good with worknig on motorcycles, do it as a side job, start off with doing tune ups for people, if you are good at construction, advertise in the paper, you would be amazed at how many people need walls textured (which is easy to do) or toilets replaced.. etc...
And the best thing about the second job being your own business, you can work it around family schedules. Where as if you get a second job working for someone else, it will most of the time take away from spending time with your family
If your second job is your own business, you can usually schedule jobs so they have the least amount of impact on your family. AND you can take family vacations and never have to worry about trying to get vacation time at the same time from two different employers.
My dad always told me, if you can find something you enjoy doing in life AND make money at it, you are 90% ahead of most people in this world. So I have been blessed, I enjoy working on computers and that is what I do for both my jobs
Decide what you like doing in life, figure out a way to make money at it, and do that as a sude business
And before anyone even STARTS, NO HAVING SEX AS A SIDE BUSINESSES it is illegal, so that doesn’t count as something you enjoy AND you can make money at muah ha ha
Don't give up the Busa, make more money that pays for it and doesn't affect the household