Well, after a year of owning the busa I finally let my wife get on back. I explained the basics to her (placing her hands on gas tank while braking, looking over my inside shoulder while leaning, etc...) but I am not convinced that she listened to me at all. Did have a decent ride but had to stay on the straight roads. The highlight of the day was when we got on the freeway and a viper got right behind us and then backed waaaaay off. We were both laughing about that. Guess the question is what would you guys do to get a passenger to relax or what advice should I be giving her. Her only experience so far riding pillion is on cruisers so I know that I have to get her to relax but thats about as far as I am right now.