What are you Thankful for

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Hi all,
I've been a little preoccupied the last few months dealing with family issues so my apologies for the silence on my part. It's a pretty standard post for this time of year and to be honest this really shouldn't be a decisive post at all, this should really show that we all have very similar things that we are Thankful for.

So lets hear it, what this year really calls out to you for what you are grateful for? Has something sparked a thought to remind you of something maybe you forgot?

For me this year of course is family as always but some very specific things.

1. In July I had the opportunity to take my dad to Houston for a week to the MD Anderson Cancer center. We made that a journey and we both knew he was close to the end and this would probably be the last "trip" he would take away from the house. We took our time and stopped when we wanted to see something and took the roads less traveled. I had an entire week to spend with my dad in his last days of being able to move around and somewhat enjoy life. He passed much knowledge, wisdom and his final request to me that week. So very grateful for that time!

2. My supportive family that went through the days after we came back from MD Anderson. Two months of hospital stays, home health, hospice and having the honor to be with my family as a whole as my father passed away. It was tough but we walked him to the edge of this life and handed him off to eternity, it was beautiful as we cheered for his excellent life and thanked him for his leadership to our family.

3. My country, my goodness we have so many freedoms and opportunities. So many sacrifices have been made for us that allow us to speak openly, go where we want, for the most part do what we want to do and live how we want to live. Thankful for those that have historically made that possible and those that continue to do so.

Let's hear what you got going on this week, have you thought about Thanksgiving this week, put any thought into it?

Cap
 
We have just passed the 5 year mark of the passing of my wife's father.............a great man who loved his family more than words could ever express....he was the quintessential "Newfie" who would give anyone the shirt off his back.......He and I spent a lot of time together and had some good laughs over the years....I fly a Newfoundland flag in his honor for the month of November.
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We've had 4 patriarchs pass away on our street in the past month.....I go out of my way to stop in at their widow's homes to see if they are ok and need anything....they have all set themselves up with snow removal and grass cutting services...
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My buddy lost his dad last week, his dad opted to use MAID and passed away at the time of his choosing....my buddy said the family was in the room and his dad told all kinds of stories and a few jokes and then passed away with a smile in the middle of a joke.....peaceful and he said even his mother looked to be at peace and a lot less worry, she seemed to de-age a few years right before them....
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My wife and I reflect on life sometimes and how in the past she and our boys worried I wouldn't come home on one of my missions..........I said I couldn't worry because I had to stay mission focused.......so I could do my best to come home....sometimes I would get a call and be gone for days or months....it was a tough lifestyle but one my family and I survived.

Life is pretty darned good, I have a good wife, kids and awesome grand-kids......my house and vehicles are all paid for, I have a cool motorcycle, good health and decent neighbors......and a good place to come to in this forum.....

Our Thanksgiving was over a month ago where we invited the two senior ladies we take care of over for a good meal and conversation....I always call them "Thelma and Louise" and they get a good laugh over that...
 
Hi all,
I've been a little preoccupied the last few months dealing with family issues so my apologies for the silence on my part. It's a pretty standard post for this time of year and to be honest this really shouldn't be a decisive post at all, this should really show that we all have very similar things that we are Thankful for.

So lets hear it, what this year really calls out to you for what you are grateful for? Has something sparked a thought to remind you of something maybe you forgot?

For me this year of course is family as always but some very specific things.

1. In July I had the opportunity to take my dad to Houston for a week to the MD Anderson Cancer center. We made that a journey and we both knew he was close to the end and this would probably be the last "trip" he would take away from the house. We took our time and stopped when we wanted to see something and took the roads less traveled. I had an entire week to spend with my dad in his last days of being able to move around and somewhat enjoy life. He passed much knowledge, wisdom and his final request to me that week. So very grateful for that time!

2. My supportive family that went through the days after we came back from MD Anderson. Two months of hospital stays, home health, hospice and having the honor to be with my family as a whole as my father passed away. It was tough but we walked him to the edge of this life and handed him off to eternity, it was beautiful as we cheered for his excellent life and thanked him for his leadership to our family.

3. My country, my goodness we have so many freedoms and opportunities. So many sacrifices have been made for us that allow us to speak openly, go where we want, for the most part do what we want to do and live how we want to live. Thankful for those that have historically made that possible and those that continue to do so.

Let's hear what you got going on this week, have you thought about Thanksgiving this week, put any thought into it?

Cap
I currently transport 2 to MD Anderson Cap. I know it wasn't easy to deal with it. They were blessed to have the support you give them. One of mine has no family. It's just her. I hold her hair back as she pukes after treatments. I try and comfort her as as I can. Then she departs into her house. With nobody.

Just know you made your dad's journey easier to travel at the end. It's very powerful.

I was with my mom for 2 weeks when she was ready. She passed in my arms. I couldn't have asked for a better time with her.
 
Some of my most important blessings I’m thankful for this year are also family related. Wife and I Just celebrated our 1 year anniversary (6 together) and, I can say I now know why none of the previous relationships went far……..God simply had even better plans for me than what I was looking for myself.
As you all know, Mother Nature hammered Florida really hard this year and, while we were hunkered down in the dark listening to Milton thrashing everything outside, my mother landed in the hospital in PA during one of her usual trips up there from Florida to spend time with her dad. Tests were saying the pancreas wasn’t happy and mom would throw up even if she drank water. It was nerve racking listening to the doctors since I lost my father to pancreas cancer at 53 years old and all this was just giving me flashbacks. Thankfully, after 4 days, she was released and, after adjusting her eating, she is doing good enough that she was able to jump on a plane to travel to Europe with family for the one in a lifetime trip she always wanted to make.
Not as important as family but, I’m glad I was able to get a gen3. I’ve been doing more admiring than riding due to 2024 being the worst year we’ve had at work in 16 years I’ve been there plus, a left shoulder and right wrist injury but, hoping I’ll be able to put some miles on it before summer comes back around with it’s +100’F degree weather.
 
I currently transport 2 to MD Anderson Cap. I know it wasn't easy to deal with it. They were blessed to have the support you give them. One of mine has no family. It's just her. I hold her hair back as she pukes after treatments. I try and comfort her as as I can. Then she departs into her house. With nobody.

Just know you made your dad's journey easier to travel at the end. It's very powerful.

I was with my mom for 2 weeks when she was ready. She passed in my arms. I couldn't have asked for a better time with her.
Is that part of your job? Do you do this as a volunteer?
 
A lot happened this year (same as every year, I guess): dad retired, parents and I paid off our houses, grandparents survived a rough interstate crash, handful of friends moved back to my area and a few others were added to our circle.

I have a solid job, a dependable bike, no debt, and the use of all my limbs...I'd consider myself pretty dang blessed!
 
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