I can't believe some folks are using the "it's the parent's responsibility" argument for this. Some parents demonstrate their inability to care for their childrens' safety and that's why innocent kids are hurt. With freedom comes responsibility in the public setting and this is a perfect example of, "I'll just be extra careful because he's on the back". That is wrong thinking IMO. Anybody who's crashed with that kind of footwear and clothing knows how bad it can be...there's more to safety gear than just a helmet. Raydog
That would be me... and that's cool.
A debate on social responsibility vs parental responsibility is far beyond the scope of this board and would likely be heated.
When I was a child, my mother allowed me to do things that many would say were unsafe... in fact, they were. Riding around helmet-less on the back of her biker (and I mean H/A biker) boyfriend's chopper would certainly be one of them. My dad had one too.... rode on that without a helmet too. Those were "the good ol' days" as it were.
Honestly, I could have died... but didn't. Those experiences are forever a part of my ongoing life that could end at any time no matter how much I tried to take precautions to avoid it.
I would not trade those experiences for 10,000 safe days.
In my years, I have been hurt and scarred physically many times. Emotionally and spiritually even more. I would not trade those either. They make me who I am.
When I was 17 I used to ride sport bikes in Los Angeles. No shirt, no helmet...an occasional wheelie and plenty of speeding on those hot SoCal summer days. I dated strippers, played in a metal band, slept on doorsteps at times... it was absolutely risky and absolutely Glorious.
All these things and 1000's more have shaped my views on freedom, and what it is. Freedom to experience in this short life is priceless, even if the price could be risking it all.
That's me. Others are different. I respect everyone's idea of what a great life is... even if that's being safer and living longer.
Those risks and experiences started for me long before I was old enough to legally decide for myself. My parents decided, and I personally cherish that I was allowed to experience early on.
That has come at a cost at times, but again... I am happy with the choices that were made on my behalf.
For that you see, I still believe it is the parent who is responsible, because they are responsible for more than a child's safety. They are responsible for more than just keeping the child alive, but also showing them what it's like to live.
I don't begrudge others for the choices they make. I don't even begrudge them when it affects me as long as that wasn't their intent and isn't absolutely reckless. We all share this playground after all so let's make some use of it while we're here.
Humble Opinions Expressed
Sean