L4G4RTO - Something you have to understand.. and if you have never been to the United States... it is difficult to grasp. The reason you are experiencing so much flack is because there is a lot of patriotism here..
It seems like there a lot of folks on this board that the serve our country or are close to someone that serves our country.. active military, retired military, local law enforcement, firemen and women, search and rescue, etc…
Please don’t take offense to our defense, but as I said unless you have ever lived in the United States - it is difficult to understand the camaraderie, the bonding..
Unlike other countries, and not always, but for the most part in the United states, we are not whites, we are not blacks we are not Hispanic, jews, muslims, Chinese, Japanese hindu or any other group that live here. We are Americans, and being American means we have total freedom to be who we want to be.
This attitude and this freedom really shows when we are backed into a corner, it is like a police officers worse nightmare, family dispute.. a police officer can be called to a family dispute and find a man beating the crap out of a woman, or a woman beating the crap out of a man, but once the police get involved, they will join together and attack the police.
The United States is pretty much the same way, we might have all our little and big squabbles like family's do, but when push comes to shove, we are a family, we are Americans and in the worse of times is when we bond together.
And contrary to popular belief in the rest of the fricken world, I can tell you from experience.. I served 10 years in the United States Marine Corp, my uncle was a Marine chopper pilot in Vietnam, and he also flew Marine One for president Nixon, my other uncle who passed away served as a Marine, my step dad was in the Army, my dead grandfather is a retired Army officer.
I now have worked for the Department of Defense for over 6 years as a civilian which gives me a total of 16 years of service to my country. In my current job I work with military pilots and other warriors.
Most of my close friends either work in local law enforcement, or federal law enforcement. I also have friends that work at high levels for the district attorney's office.
This might sound like bragging or something, but I am trying to make a point. And that point being is I have been involved in the service of my country for many years and I know lots of people that serve out country in one way or another.
Everyone I know does it because they love this country, when my friends go over to Iraq or to Afghanistan, I can personally tell you, in their heart their mission is to free people, to save people and help people that are at a disadvantage, and / or to protect our own country. The people I know and work with on a daily basis are selfless people who do what they do to help others.
In the majority of people in the united states, for some reason or another when push comes to shove, we always try to help the underdog.
This is my perspective, and I know that many people on this board that are in similar service, or have close friends or family that are in similar service, they probably feel pretty much the same way, in our hearts it is about helping others..
I think the current situation with BT and his family and his niece is a prime example of how Americans pull together. Most of us honestly and generally care for everyone, even if we dont know them personally
However this caring that we have, this generosity, and this forgiveness should never be mistaken for weakness, because we are quick to defend ourselves and even quicker to defend others. This is what it is to be American, this is the bond of Americans, and this is what makes us all a family.
So when you say anything about having problems with a "banner" or a banner showing support for our troops. This is why you might sense hostility… this is our bond.. we are a family and we stick up for each other as such…
And when you or anyone else say that we go to war because of money or other financial gains, we take offense, because the United States has never profited from any war, we have never acquired land (excpet enough to burry our fallen soldiers on foreign soil), we have never acquired riches. We have gone to war, shed our blood on foreign soil and when the job was done, we left.. never asking for thanks and often never getting it… never asking for compensation of any kind, and it has never been offered.
We serve from our hearts… we asking nothing in return……
We are the United States, we are a super power... when any country in the world is in need, no matter who there are, we are often the first ones they call for help... But yet for some reason we are always condemend for being war mongers, greedy...and searching for power and riches....
It gets old to keep helping people out then getting punched in the face for it.. over and over and over.... But God willing we will allways pursue what is right and no matter how many times we get kicked in the teeth, we will continue to help the underdog.
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