My dad is a mechanical engineer(I'm just a simpleton with a 2yr technical degree in auto mechanics) but I understand the engineering mind. I was raised to go by the manual, and adhere to specifications. That is the best way to do things, but I assure you that you are over thinking the oil filter. Hand tight, as snug as it will go without trying to ring it off(which is almost impossible by hand). It will not come off, or be over tightened when snugged by hand. Ask an ASE certified master tech and I will guarantee you they will tell you to hand tighten an oil filter.
With all due respect, you seem to be putting too much thought in how tight it should be, as opposed to a smaller filter not capable of performing the same as stock...and just to save a few bucks.???
With all due respect, you seem to be putting too much thought in how tight it should be, as opposed to a smaller filter not capable of performing the same as stock...and just to save a few bucks.???