All I can say is been there done that way to many times. I lost everything so many times it makes me sick thinking about how much I have lost. But I have always got right back on my feet. My friend take your time in what you really want. Then go find an Asian woman NOT AN AMERICANISED ASIAN WOMAN a TRUE ASIAN woman My wife is from Korea she came to the states in 08. She is a very loyal and dedicated person she lets me do as I want and respects everything that I do. They are very family orientated. I still try to get used to the fact of how she ,,,well what I call spoils me. I can come home from work 11:00 pm and she will get up and make me dinner if I want it. She wakes up every morning when I go to work to see me off. I don't know to me it seems like spoiling me. But they are very dedicated people