here's my example of pointless over use:
My daughter calls her girlfriend, says "are you at home... yea.. I'm gonna come over ok?"
She then asks me if I can give her a ride and I reply... "sure give me ten minutes".
She now calls her girlfriend again or texts her "ok, I'm gonna leave in about ten minutes"
Ten mintues pass, we hope in the car, which takes my daughter a little longer because she's trying to walk and call her girlfriend at the same time. She send her a text message "we're on our way now". Before we've even pulled out of the drive way she gets frustrated that her girlfriend hasn't replied yet. She calls her with her cphone "why didn't you reply... oh, ok... we're on our way.. are you still at home... ok"
Her girlfriend lives about two miles away and it takes less than 10 minutes to get there. During that time she text a few more time back n forth with someone else.
As we approach her girfriends street she quickly calls her again "hey, we're turning on your street right now... ok.. meat me at your door"
I stop in front of her girlfriends house which is only three blocks away.
Frustrated that her girlfriend isn't standing at the door she calls her again "I'm here but where are you...ok, well come to the door".
Once her girlfriend finaly is standing at the door of her house my daughter hops out and gose into her girlfriends house.
Now back in the old days, I would call a friend and converse as needed. We would make our plans which would be more like. "Ok, I'll meet you at your place at blah blah time".
Once it was blah blah time I would just knock on his door or he would already be outside knowing that since I said blah blah time, that meant I would be there at that time. Unless I was dead I would be there. That's how easy it used to be. i still do things with the same approach. If I say I'll be somewhere at some time, that meant I would be there at that time. In the event I wasn't that meant something bad has happened and I wasn't going to make it. I don't have a need to be in constant virtual contact with everyone during every moment. Hell there's some people I only chat with once every few months. We catch up on things and that's it. It allows me to sift through the daily nonesense and simply highlight important moments. I don't think anyone needs to hear about the person who just cut me off while driving, or how I just finished a sandwich and it tasted good. I guess I just focus on more meaningful conversations to share with others.
Yes, I chat on the boards but even with those I don't normaly just type about garbage just to interect with others.