I am not 100% sure that the bent intake valve is the cause of the problem, I kind think it is the other way around. I will try to explain my though process and if I am wrong, well I will have learned something new today...
Did you verify that both of the retainers are present on that valve and that the tightly wound portion of the spring is facing down toward the head ?
In theory...
If the valve was bent, pre cam lobe destruction, the follower and the bucket assembly would always sit lower in the head due to the reduced overal length of the valve thus no mechanical interferance to wear out the cam and follower and why only one intake valve, they both open at the same time...
I think that the wear of the follower and the cam lob has allowed for extra distance between the two. With the follower to slap around some 8 to 10 mm by the looks of it. With nothing to control the assembly, I think that the lifter happened to push the valve open just enough at the wrong time to nick the piston.
Harmonics has a funny way of making things happen... that is why the tightly wound coils are put towards the head and one spring is wound clockwise and the other counter clockwise.
If I was you, I would like to be present when it is dis-assembled, just to check the basics, not point fingers or cast blame.