@Jeremy112113
the issues started with replacing the friction plates etc.?
did you put in the last friction one tooth turned to RH?
this can cause your issue .
and - sounds very strange / weird / almost absurd
but did you watch the steels very punctilious when putting in?
they are punched out during production and by that you can feel at the teeth of the steels rounded corners from the one side and sharp corners from the opposit side.
i personally allways watch strongly that the steels are put in in the same direction - all! sharp sides inside or all! outside - i never mix that direction, caused by issues at my fj1200 (10 or more years ago) while changing these directions while putting in.
sometimes - not always and very seldom - this "mix" can cause clutch sliding.
btw - the clutches of the haya and fj1200 look and work 100% equal .
and - i personally only use oil with special motorcycle approval - car/truck etc. oils have additives who can cause cause clutch sliding in our bikes
because cars etc. have no "oil bathed clutches" like our bikes.
if you change now to bike´s oil
replace the car oil bathed frictions by new ones,
because i think the frictions suck the oil a little bit and the clutch sliding won´t go without a replacement.