FAILED by the system again!!!

[chrisjp]

i am here to regrettably inform those who know what we have been going through with my daughter Natasha reference to what happened to her back in approximately 2001-2002. we sat down with the District Attorney today to be told 1. my daughter in the initial interview stated she was 5 possibly 6 years old (we had not sat down at the initial filing of the charges to construct a SOLID time line as it was 12 years ago and had not gone to the courts to research exact document-able dates to narrow down a time frame) and during some of that time he had an alibi of being in prison based on her estimated time frame....thus....they cant prosecute because "they cant bring in a expert witness to testify that a child ...or anyone for that matter...may not remember exact "dates". and 2. the individual passed a polygraph sooooooooo...it never happened....and 3. its more important to get closure for my daughter through counseling. and 4. we had a vendetta against the man and we were making things up to convict him for "something"..... YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW ENRAGED I AM. my daughter has been a victim by the man....and now a victim by the system...and no they are not interested in protect and serve...

 

[jphilipson]

I'm not sure what happened, in regards to "my daughter Natasha reference to what happened to her back in approximately 2001-2002". If it's what I think it is.. ... that's what I'd like to do to someone's head if I were in your position.

Sorry the system failed you here, that really sucks. But keep your head on your shoulders and don't do anything you'll regret; as hard as it might be.

 

[chrisjp]

i am sure others have been through this...its just getting to the point of "why bother calling the police" when its all just smoke and mirrors unless it gets them political gain.

 

[lil charlie]

Sorry chris. Give her a big org hug.

 

[fallenarch]

Sory to hear that my friend. Just don't make a bad situation even worse, maybe it's time to move on and take care of what's in front of you and your family not what's behind.

Take care.

 

[SS14PSI]

Sorry to hear this. Sounds like a horrible situation. That being said, it seems like your frustration is a little misplaced. As long as the police took your report and provided the DA with the information, then they've done their job. If the DA refuses to file charges, then the blame for that rests on the DA, not the police.

It seems to be incredibly hard to convict people for anything these days, especially when the crime happened years ago. The DA has the rough job of trying to apply justice while protecting the rights of the innocent, or possibly innocent. Either way, terrible situation.

 

[skydivr]

Call Steve Wilkos.......

 

[dk55belair]

That really sucks Chris, you know I am not one to hold a grudge so I wont give any advice.???

 

[ditchdr]

The problem is not with the cops, it is the ACLU protecting crooks by giving them more rights then the victim. its sad but many lawyers have made a living out of b*&^h slapping the legal system.

 

[joetrailer]

Damn straight, the system has been brought to it's knees. It's not all of the people in it, many, probably most, want to do the right thing. But they are banned by rules created for one reason and perverted to fit a criminal defense and legislated into law from the bench. It's a system where if you don't know your way around as well as the criminals (and you probably don't) you get chewed up and spit out it's a sad state of affairs that would make our founders cry.

 

[Fastfrog007]

Yet another loss for the good guys

 

[card16969]

i dont know exactly what happened but i can sure guess from the sounds of it and oh id kill someone if i had a daughter

 

[newman]

Sorry to hear about this.
I remember when you put a reply to a thread, about what had been happening.
Don't know what to say really, just good luck and best wishes to you and your family in the future.

 

[chrisjp]

whats sad is the individual is on megan's law for indecent assault and spent 6+ years in prison (if i can google "how to pass a polygraph" im sure he knows a few tricks ie...had a arm in a sling, and was under drugs needing "rescheduled" couple of times) so "innocent" does not come into play here. my biggest thing is until my daughter started remembering (nightmares at first then details) this individual had left us alone (probably helped he was in prison) and we didnt think nothing of it just took her to therapy to help her and what she was remembering... then a year ago while at haya's in the hills, he started comeing around the house ...seen by adult witness's...terrorizing the household at 2-5am, all folks that ID'd him by pics but had no idea the history. the DA played "devils advocate" and said we made that stuff up too (yes police reports were filed and statements taken by the witnesses). all as our "way to get him" and we couldn't prove it was really him and set off an agenda in our own minds...it was so demeaning to take AGAIN one of our huskeys dieing from antifreeze poisoning the same way my wifes died back in 2001 (which this fool admitted to one of our friends that he did and when we took him to court for harassment since the DA's back then wouldn't press charges for what he was doing) it was all the same MO. hell we had adult witness's back then seing him in our yard...doing things but i had to press the charges privately for terrorizing my children) lol even at the court hearing he thought he was there and admitted to the judge he thought it was because of poisoning the dog. oh yea...demeaning that AGAIN he came and did the same things out of the blue once my daughter started remembering and "magically" showed up when we had all but forgot about it....and for 2 weeks straight we had nightly banging on the walls of the house...people seeing him in the yard late at night....we armed ourselves and chased him personally through the woods, set trip falls and traps all to "encourage" him not to come around again....and the DA suggested it was one of my daughters friends/school mates playing pranks on us. yes i never "saw" him...but heard and chased "someone" running through the woods but never got close enough...heard them "trip" and swear as we chased them....and amazingly....once we did this 3 nights in a row....we have not heard ANYTHING since....or before this all started....so yes all of us (those who actually saw him, and those including bubbawood helping chasing) believe it was him. heck the officers were in the house one night filling out our report when everyone heard water gushing outside...went outside and 2 knife stabs in the pool. so .....if it wasn't him... didn't find out through some of my daughters friends he knew (we traced who she told and their parents are friends of his) why did this start happening...why another dog died violently this time even at the vets office when we took him because we didn't know what was wrong with him from apparent antifreeze poisoning (black vomit and discharge once died) why the same MO.... people visually identifying him that had no prior knowledge of the problems, we lived at a diffrent address each time.....so that's why we believed it was him. sorry for rambleing...its early and this insult to my family again just really makes me not trust anyone of authority...the DA told me to file private charges again and take care of it myself.....WHY?? must i do all the work

 

[mrsBusawhipped]

Sorry! Prayers and hugs sent to you and your family! He will get his in the end. I pray your daughter can find strength to move forward.

 

[nabusa]

The system only care about criminals and how much money they can make off those criminals to set them free. Anyone can argue this all they want, but it is reality. Their is no real justice, that is were our country is heading. I'll pray for your situation Chris. Keep your head together and don't lose it.

 

[Big Bo]

Chris, I can`t read your second post. I am so sorry for your daughter, for the family, and man, for you.

I keep a lot inside.

Chris, I will pray for your family. I hope your daughter lives a wonderful life.

The jerk, naw.

 

[Poppy]

Sorry to hear about this.
I remember when you put a reply to a thread, about what had been happening.
Don't know what to say really, just good luck and best wishes to you and your family in the future.

^^^My sentiments exactly^^^

Don't do what we all know you really want to do. Try and work on the healing stage, the best you can considering the circumstances. Speaking from experience, the crap really starts hitting the fan once everything starts coming out. I really hope things work out for your daughter and your entire family!!

 

[MO-BUSA]

dang thats horrible bro, i dont know what to say.

 

[Casperle]

I m Sorry that didnt work out Chris.