K Wolf, I'd say your best bet is to get a lawyer. You've got no chance in the court system.
I have to say your entire attitude is a bit naive. When dealing with cops it's best to understand their mentality. Just think of them as robots who follow the rules, and want everyone else to follow the rules of the road. So if you see one, simply do what you are supposed to do according to the rules and don't do what you are not supposed to do. It's as simle as that.
This also includes the situation when you are stopped. Here is my paperwork, Sir. Yes, Sir. No, Sir. If anything else, complete compliance will be more appreciated by a cop because this is the actions a cop understands and comprehends as following the rules. The worst you can do after being stopped is asking why you were stopped and starting to explain how you did nothing wrong. In the eyes of a cop it's the stupidest question. Why? Because if he stopped you, he had a reason to stop you. Don't dispute that. If a cop decides to let you know why he stopped you, he will.
Most cops wouldn't tolerate doing anything remotely out of the rules in front of them. They perceive it as disrespecting them and their authority. Your explanations don't matter.
Hope everything works out for you. Find a good attorney. You've got a serious charge which will go on your record. Insurance will skyrocket.