Just so you know, Tuf is one of those 'true friends' to me that you mention. He knows more about riding motorcycles in his pinky than I do in my entire body, and has helped me immeasurably, to include having me out to his house for the last 2 years to go on a big ride, on his bike(s). HE's the one that convinced and encouraged me I could do a trackday, which has made me a MUCH better and safer rider. I probably talk to him every other day on the phone, and trust him implicitly. And, while he certainly has a 'gift' with words, you will find very few who really understand riding dynamics more than he. Always keep your mind open to learning something new.