Grumpy is right - it's easy for bikes to look bad in traffic. Sport bikes whiz by me everyday on the way to work, but it's not just speed. A few years ago, while traveling in my cage I witnessed a 954 wheelie'ing at 65mph less than 10 feet behind the car in front of him. Luckily the cage driver didn't look in the rear view mirror, get spooked, and nail his brakes. At one point 954 pilot was wheelie'ing so close to the back of the cage that he could have landed his front wheel on the cage's trunk. My thoughts were; a very skilled rider ...with an IQ of a rock.
Truth is, the faster you go, or the more radical you drive your rocket, the more obvious you become; both to the public (as in: "And I was thinking what an idiot, traffic etc... "), and the cops (as in: "There's someone that doesn't need their drivers license"). You bascially stick out like a sore thumb.
Unfortunately, as we fly past the triple digit mark, reaction time has to continuously keep pace with the speed-o. That can be tough to do at triple digit speeds in a highly populated cage area's. (Hell, it can be tough to do at a track when everyone is traveling at approximately the same speed - much less passing mini-vans!) Something to keep in mind... at only 100mph the road is passing by at 121 feet per second. That doesn't leave much time to react, especially in close quarters.
It's tough for any sport bike pilot to keep all those ponies under control. It's a combination of human nature, and the nature of the beast. But hey, if we didn't want the power & speed, we'd all be on visiting scooters.org, right?
It's been my experience that (and this doesn't work for everyone) the older you get, the more common sense you tend to develop. Now-a-days I look for a [very] clear areas before twisting the grip. Less chance of getting hurt, hurting someone else, or getting hand-cuffed.
We own a machines designed specifically for high speed. We gonna speed? Yep! That's pretty much a given. IMHO, the key is to dial in some common sense and stack the odds in our favor. It's unfortunate but the unlucky and/or under-skilled have a tendency to eliminate themselves. Note my caption below.