How do you just ask a girl out?

[Vic_E55_2001]

Never ever ever sleep with your neighbor or coworker, unless you are ready to move out.
If you decided otherwise make a quick move and don`t become a friends.
Don`t try to impress her, be yourself, act like you not interested it will intrigue her.

 

[BlueHaya]

never mind.......could cause you problems

 

[shortcut]

hey charlie- when i was single the 1st thing i got out of the way was her feelings about motorcycles. if i got- i don't like em' or i'm scared of em' or i'll never ride one it was ALWAYS next. 1st date was always a nice ride (don't scare the crap out of her) then maybe something to eat,conversation,and go from there. remember: "ride to live-live to ride" our passion. my 2 cents.

 

[shortcut]

best advice: wait. better to wait than to wish you have waited. date a woman for 4 seasons-no sex. try it God's way. no one can fill your needs 100%. everyone wants to be loved,accepted,and needed. only God can fill your needs 100%. if you go to man to fill your needs you will be sad,mad or hurt. expectations are premeditated resentments.

 

[semi]

(WWJD @ Jun. 21 2007,15:57) I'll admit LOTBOY has some truth in his blunt reply about free milk, but as you are finding out, in the end, it's empty calories.  After eating the icing on the cake for so long, you start missing the cake.

get a list of girls that you see every once in a while and rotate through them every six months or so...some of them will find a significant other and call things off with you but they can always be replaced- and a lot of them will come back for more (usually right after the one they left you for dumps them on their head)...if they think you really don't care if they keep coming around or not, you will be surprised how often your phone/doorbell will ring...nothing wrong with keeping the older lady around until things get to a very serious point with someone else and you actually make a monogamous commitment

this way you can have your cake and eat it too

p.s. don't listen to me, i was divorced twice by the age of 31 but i am one of the happiest guys i know

think i'm going to get flamed for this one?

 

[WWJD]

Love is like oxygen: you get too much you get too high, not enough and you're gonna die, love gets you high

... hey! I should put that to a song or something

 

[Rocketman]

ok ok ... so don't take your advice from a movie....

umm.... how-bout - Get your own dog and you can both take time walking your dogs together. That way you can get to know her before you actually ask her out. Then if you have things in common, it'll be easy. And if you don't - get rid of the dog and there's no awkward moments.

Oh - and never swear in front of her. And never take her on the motorcycle up to 170mph. Just because you did it - doesn't mean she'll do it.

 

[05BusaLe]

I didn't read all of this post, But this is what works for me. Walk up to the young lady you would like to <s>do</s> I mean date and say "Do as I say and no one will get hurt"

Works every time

 

[06BUSA]

(LadyHawk @ Jun. 21 2007,06:29) The nicest, non-sexist, polite way to ask a woman on a date, is to just ask her. Chat a bit, and then say "Hey, you wanna go get some lunch (dinner)?" Or preplan a bit, find something that's going on in the neighborhood, like a concert in the park, or a carnival, or something cheap and fun, then after you've chatted with her, say "There's a concert (or whatever) in the park next Saturday.. would you be interested in checking it out?"

Something simple, ya don't have to WOW her on the first date. Just something that is low key and relaxed.

Good luck!

+100
Just be polite and ask. If she hesitates, tell her its a simple yes or no. You wont hurt my feelings, just my pride.

She says no, wish her well.

 

[Fate]

(semi @ Jun. 21 2007,22:52)

(WWJD @ Jun. 21 2007,15:57) I'll admit LOTBOY has some truth in his blunt reply about free milk, but as you are finding out, in the end, it's empty calories.  After eating the icing on the cake for so long, you start missing the cake.

get a list of girls that you see every once in a while and rotate through them every six months or so...some of them will find a significant other and call things off with you but they can always be replaced- and a lot of them will come back for more (usually right after the one they left you for dumps them on their head)...if they think you really don't care if they keep coming around or not, you will be surprised how often your phone/doorbell will ring...nothing wrong with keeping the older lady around until things get to a very serious point with someone else and you actually make a monogamous commitment

this way you can have your cake and eat it too

p.s. don't listen to me, i was divorced twice by the age of 31 but i am one of the happiest guys i know

think i'm going to get flamed for this one?

I won't flame you over this..








You got me falling out of my chair laughing...... I like your plan, think you should take himunder your wing and you can teach him all your mad skilz....

 

[PaNDeM1C]

(Chief RoadLoK @ Jun. 21 2007,08:28) Yes, it sounds like good advice. I would like to mention that you can send the older women my way! Hey, I'm 50 and I find that it is very easy to ask women out now, probably because I figure I've got nothing to lose at this point in my life. Good Luck!

Chief

If you lived in Atlanta... I would.

Our relationship is pretty much me going to her place... getting naked on her couch... (use your imagination) while watching tv or a ppv movie.

Or... she'll come to my place and we'll do the same thing. We have nothing in common really and to be blunt; she's just too old for me and we're not a match made in heaven for a real serious relationship. I'm a guy and she's a woman... and that's about it. But she's very cool and down to earth and you'll probably like her!! HAHA!

 

[PaNDeM1C]

(dadofthree @ Jun. 21 2007,17:40)

(GMbusa @ Jun. 21 2007,11:49) Tell her "I'm like an Amtrack train..... I pull out on time"  

Just like AmTrak, someones gettin knocked up  

That's hilarious!!!

I actually do... well... I don't, but I... oh, well.... let's stop right there!!!!!

Let's just say that I can (bleep) like a porn guy... I have good control!!!

 

[GoFaster]

I tell her that I own a Hayabusa. Then I lean back and wait for her to ask me!