My time has come.
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Hey dont take it out on me... I take it personal ya know... now lets get down to biz..
you got at least 1 mod to do in order to be ready for spring and our incessant nagging to come to Bash... now you ready to tear the bike apart?
Man I have a bunch, RoadLok, evostar, tires, and stickers. Yes i am ready to tear her down.
I ownt beat you up Randy I promise. LOL
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outtahand
Hey dont take it out on me... I take it personal ya know... now lets get down to biz..
you got at least 1 mod to do in order to be ready for spring and our incessant nagging to come to Bash... now you ready to tear the bike apart?
Kevin
:stupid:I know we never met let alone chat on this board but you need to remember one thing: a family member should never leave a family hanging. Hang around and there are great folks on this site that you can vent out your rants on.
I dont know what issues you are having right now but I truly hope that things will fall in place and make it better for you and your family.
I dont know what issues you are having right now but I truly hope that things will fall in place and make it better for you and your family.
mrninja9
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owe but you will beat me up i see how it is hahahahaha
see now you have a smile on your face
more angry men on the board!!
Now come back to Chat!
Heaven knows we can't let the women have all the fun.
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outtahand
Why not? ???
You better stay here, I don't think you want to mess with Jules.
Seriously, have you tried to just wright it all down? Captain upgraded the board with the blog feature. I haven't made an entry yet, but I believe you can set it to private so No one will be able to read it unless you want them to. Or you can do it the old fashion way too. But anyway, I find it helps when I can write out my feelings and problems.
Glad your sticking around. Prayers sent for resolution to your "problems" and the strength to get through them.
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You better stay here, I don't think you want to mess with Jules.
Seriously, have you tried to just wright it all down? Captain upgraded the board with the blog feature. I haven't made an entry yet, but I believe you can set it to private so No one will be able to read it unless you want them to. Or you can do it the old fashion way too. But anyway, I find it helps when I can write out my feelings and problems.
Glad your sticking around. Prayers sent for resolution to your "problems" and the strength to get through them.
thank you for the advice. I did start a blog and I did write down what the heck is going on. I think I feel al little better. Now atleast I can keep my mind straight about what is going on and look to see how I am addressing the issues and what needs to be done.
Again thank you to everyone who has shown support and friendship. It does something for the soul to know that people who have never met me will miss me and consider me a friend. Ihave just felt so alone and angry. If I do explode on you, please forgive me now, it is not you. I will try my darndest to control my anger.
We will miss you around here and be thinking of you!
we will be here for you buddy
No matter how bad it is, someone else has been through it and likely posts here on the board. They can help.
Hang tough, let us know what's going on and you'll find plenty of shoulders to cry on. Hell, you could probably go completely limp and never hit the ground around here.
--Wag--
Hang tough, let us know what's going on and you'll find plenty of shoulders to cry on. Hell, you could probably go completely limp and never hit the ground around here.
--Wag--
Thanks Bro'. You made me laugh, between your post and Scar's below.
There are probably a ton of folks who have or are going through it. Heck look at BrendanP 24 years and out the door. I just have a hard time asking for help. There are a lot of folks like that on here.I have no problem tossing my hand out to help pick someone up. I just have a hard time talking about my issues and taking hold of that hand put out to me to help me. I am not ungrateful in the least, I have just always had to be the strong one.
I have been told by many friends here that they will not allow me to leave. So I am staying. I will try hard to take hold of the hands thrust at me (and not bybiting them. LOL) and pull myself out of this hole.
Again I want to thank everyone who has PM'ed me, offered advice, held out htere hand, offered there shoulder, and called me to tell me I was a fool, jerk, dumbazz or just to say hey we care man.
I feel like such a heel. You folks are the best anyone could ask for in friends and family.
I am not going any where. How could I. Thanks again
The strongest tree in the forest is the one that bends, bend but don't break. Hang in there, time heals all wounds.
Take care brother... You can contact me if you ever want or need to...
Thanks Bro'. You made me laugh, between your post and Scar's below.
There are probably a ton of folks who have or are going through it. Heck look at BrendanP 24 years and out the door. I just have a hard time asking for help. There are a lot of folks like that on here.I have no problem tossing my hand out to help pick someone up. I just have a hard time talking about my issues and taking hold of that hand put out to me to help me. I am not ungrateful in the least, I have just always had to be the strong one.
I have been told by many friends here that they will not allow me to leave. So I am staying. I will try hard to take hold of the hands thrust at me (and not bybiting them. LOL) and pull myself out of this hole.
Again I want to thank everyone who has PM'ed me, offered advice, held out htere hand, offered there shoulder, and called me to tell me I was a fool, jerk, dumbazz or just to say hey we care man.
I feel like such a heel. You folks are the best anyone could ask for in friends and family.
I used to be that way. People would want to help when it was really needed, and I mean REALLY needed and I would refuse it or sidestep it or just never let anyone know that there was a problem. It's pride. It causes falls. The falls hurt, man.
I finally got to the point of being able to accept more and more help from people, and not just in the form of material sustenance. More in the form of just getting out my friends' shoulders and just venting. People who are willing to listen and give their advice are worth more than money can buy. The nice thing, not only does it NOT make you less of a man, it actually shores you up again when you need it and it makes you a better human being in the long run.
The most important thing to remember is that once you're back on your own two feet, you'll be able to help someone else again. The opportunity ALWAYS arises, guaranteed, and it's something to look forward to, something to watch for.
Regardless, get your hands in the hands of your true friends and just, well, let them help. You never know, you may be the means whereby someone is able to repay a debt from help they received in the past and you'd be doing THEM a favor while you're helping yourself. That's the way I look at it sometimes. Often, the only way you can repay such a thing is by doing it for someone else. As I said, money can't buy it or repay it.
Hope that makes sense. Hope you can see the multi-faceted value of giving and receiving help. It goes both ways. It has to go both ways.
--Wag--
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