Blanca, thanks for your show of faith. It is obvious you have a firm belief! Plus, thanks for the offer of watching the kids, it is appreciated! Without boring everyone too too much, we have temporary guardianship which will be changing to permanent guardianship after a court hearing in April or May. We've had custody since Jan '09 and it has been a major re-adjustment for my wife and I. Our kids are 25, 28, and 30, so we had been out of the business of raising children for a while. We were at the point of spoiling ALL the grandkids. The girls are great kids, 12, 9, and 6. The 12 year old is straight A, advanced classes. The 9 year old needs a little extra attention but no big deal. Loves all sports, no girly girl. The 6 year old is a wanna be singer/dancer/actress, typical little girly girl. She was born 2 days after my Mother passed and will always have a special spot with me!