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[johndoe]

Sorry to hear about your mom.  Hooray for those who have good mothers. I had one of the worst moms on earth.  All four of her kids hated her and we were all good honor student kids and were physically,verbally and mentally abused. Some things in life are unforgivable. I hear people say forgive your parents all the time but unless you have experienced what we have been through, it's not that easy.  I don't want to bore you with the atrocities because it's not a pretty story. Heres my redirect to those who say forgive your mom, "Try telling your children you wished they were dead,never born, hope they die,rather had laid an egg and made a sandwich than to have given birth to them,you'll never amount to anything" for 25+ years. And after those 20+ years ask your children do they forgive you and if they love you. I would never do or say anything my mother has done to someone I love.

 

[BusaWizard]

My Mother will be 96 in Aug. God has blessed me to have her stay with me, so I see and talk to her everyday.

Do you realize she was born the same year the Titanic sank. Her short term memory isn't that keen, but she remembers things that happened when she was a little girl. Through out the twentys, thirtys, fortys, fiftys, (that when I was born) and so on...

 

[Bosshound]

My Mother will be 96 in Aug. God has blessed me to have her stay with me, so I see and talk to her everyday.

Do you realize she was born the same year the Titanic sank. Her short term memory isn't that keen, but she remembers things that happened when she was a little girl. Through out the twentys, thirtys, fortys, fiftys, (that when I was born) and so on...

My Dad was Also Born the Same Year the Titanic Sank. Unfortunetly he Passed on about 6 Years Ago. After Mom Died He Stopped Giving a SH..

 

[BusaWizard]

My Mother will be 96 in Aug. God has blessed me to have her stay with me, so I see and talk to her everyday.

Do you realize she was born the same year the Titanic sank. Her short term memory isn't that keen, but she remembers things that happened when she was a little girl. Through out the twentys, thirtys, fortys, fiftys, (that when I was born) and so on...

My Dad was Also Born the Same Year the Titanic Sank.  Unfortunetly he Passed on about 6 Years Ago.  After Mom Died He Stopped Giving a SH..  

Sorry to hear that, sometimes they become so attached to one another that when one goes it not long before the other ones gone.

 

[Wag]

Sorry to hear about your mom. Hooray for those who have good mothers. I had one of the worst moms on earth. All four of her kids hated her and we were all good honor student kids and were physically,verbally and mentally abused. Some things in life are unforgivable. I hear people say forgive your parents all the time but unless you have experienced what we have been through, it's not that easy. I don't want to bore you with the atrocities because it's not a pretty story. Heres my redirect to those who say forgive your mom, "Try telling your children you wished they were dead,never born, hope they die,rather had laid an egg and made a sandwich than to have given birth to them,you'll never amount to anything" for 25+ years. And after those 20+ years ask your children do they forgive you and if they love you. I would never do or say anything my mother has done to someone I love.

Pretty close to what I endured from both of my parents. I envy the relationships people have with their moms and dads. I've made up for it by hanging out with very good friends, many of which I met here on this board. Those relationships are deeper and more meaningful.

I'm tempted to go on about it but I'll save it.

--Wag--

 

[Lycan]

Sorry to hear about your mom.  Hooray for those who have good mothers. I had one of the worst moms on earth.  All four of her kids hated her and we were all good honor student kids and were physically,verbally and mentally abused. Some things in life are unforgivable. I hear people say forgive your parents all the time but unless you have experienced what we have been through, it's not that easy.  I don't want to bore you with the atrocities because it's not a pretty story. Heres my redirect to those who say forgive your mom, "Try telling your children you wished they were dead,never born, hope they die,rather had laid an egg and made a sandwich than to have given birth to them,you'll never amount to anything" for 25+ years. And after those 20+ years ask your children do they forgive you and if they love you. I would never do or say anything my mother has done to someone I love.

Pretty close to what I endured from both of my parents.  I envy the relationships people have with their moms and dads.  I've made up for it by hanging out with very good friends, many of which I met here on this board.  Those relationships are deeper and more meaningful.  

I'm tempted to go on about it but I'll save it.

--Wag--

Yup not all of us had it good...after many years though my mom is trying to make up for lost time, she constantly asks my forgiveness and I constantly tell her none is necessary, frankly when you're a child it's hard to understand what difficulties in life your parents have to endure and the stress that comes along with it, not to excuse anybody, but after so many years I chalk it up to this...being that we all are a by-product of our collective upbringings, be they good or bad, it's those experiences that mold us, shape us, and teach us at the deepest level that we can be better people than those who have hurt us..personally, after this many years I finally understand that I am a product of a horrible upbringing, but I would never subject my children to that, to me thats what's most important. Would I change WHO and WHAT I am now, even though many things are a direct result of my crappy youth? Never folks...one other thing, take the love you missed, the love you wanted, the love that still exists...and spend it freely on your kids. So whether your parents were great or great pieces of s@*!, kiss the kids and be who you are, for them and for you...

 

[Lycan]

I heard Dad's still kickin around somewhere...who knows where...my sympathy on yoyr loss bro, which si the real subject of this thread..