The surgery I am looking at is called RFA. It is a minimally invasive surgery. One to two days in the hospital max, unless there are complications.Is there anything we can DO? I know you said prayers are #1, but I'm kind of a "hands on" person. Since you're looking at surgery do you need blood donations to credit your blood product account? Several years ago, the son of a business acquaintance had a traumatic battle with cancer (he beat it!) and needed a lot of blood during his many surgeries. We organized several blood drives and were able to donate enough that he wasn't "charged" for any blood he was given during surgery.
We're spread all over the country, but I'd be happy to look into it if you'd like.