UPDATE for those that wanted to know...

[yamahor]

i think he has some good advice there till the end..just cause i got lost (im a guy i confuse easy) but if she makes you happy enough that she is all you think about...dont put her to the side to acheive your weight goals FIRST. true love and happyness is far more rewarding than being 175lbs. I'm NOT saying ditch the weight goals just make HER another reason to get in shape. Cause you want her to be even MORE attracted to you....come on everyone is probably saying love is blind...blah blah blah...we all KNOW we want to look as attractive as we can for our special someone.


All im trying to say is chase her first and let her be ANOTHER reason to get in shape.

but dont over due the chasing

Thats basically my thoughts. I'm not too worried about getting serious, but it would be nice, and I won't let my weight goals stop me from that, but keep me motivated.

 

[99'busa]

i think he has some good advice there till the end..just cause i got lost (im a guy i confuse easy) but if she makes you happy enough that she is all you think about...dont put her to the side to acheive your weight goals FIRST. true love and happyness is far more rewarding than being 175lbs. I'm NOT saying ditch the weight goals just make HER another reason to get in shape. Cause you want her to be even MORE attracted to you....come on everyone is probably saying love is blind...blah blah blah...we all KNOW we want to look as attractive as we can for our special someone.


All im trying to say is chase her first and let her be ANOTHER reason to get in shape.

but dont over due the chasing

Thats basically my thoughts. I'm not too worried about getting serious, but it would be nice, and I won't let my weight goals stop me from that, but keep me motivated.

your alright ben, good luck to ya and we are still waiting on the next date