hahahaha you guys are worse than my REAL WORLD freinds! This is all too funny. I'm not desparate or anything, I just happened to notice an attraction to a smoker. I barely know her. I take my time in these situations. Which is why I end up in long term relationships usually. The best things are worth waiting for [or slowly manipulating over long stretches of time]. I plant seeds, fertilize them.... no wait that don't sound right.
Anyway, my usual modus operandi is simply staying away from certain attributes, and smoking is in the top 3. The other parts include drug users, cannibals, lesbians, criminals, murders, married women, divorced women, damaged goods, desperate father hunters, white trash, social snobs, superficials, EMOs, atheists, mormons, AL-QUAIDA, bar flys, $lut$, hos, playas, dullards, cookie cutters, obesers, materialists, money grubbers, women with any parts of the rainbow colored hair, beatnics, nazis, wall flowers, cultists, vampires, peta members, nonstop talkers, cow girls, rappers, obsessive compulsives, stalkers, mother figures, preggers, SPRM donation seekers, saleswomen, women with short hair [unless it's a really attractive package], grandmas, hypocondriacs, controllers, overly tom-boyish [some is ok], competers, exercizaholics, alcoholics, schoolaholics, tv-aholics, geeks, ugly chicks, pron stars, jail bait, women who like to use baby talk in public, girls with potty mouth, and girls who's names have less than 3 syllables... other than that, I feel I'm being pretty open minded about this one.
I'll post up later on.... IF it gets anymore interesting, AFTER all the song/dance/smoke/mirrors and in-depth investigations are complete.