thank you.that can help more than some people will ever know.
thank you.that can help more than some people will ever know.
thank you.You need a Hug?
PM sent Race1Why the big announcements well it could be that after someone has drank about a 5th of jack daniels and they are sitting alone in the dark with a 45 pressed to their head and all the sudden it hits them that if they do it who is gonna help their momma when she gets drunk and falls between the tub and the toilet who is gonna pay child support for their kid that they might have overheard them say in the background "I dont want to see him on thanksgiveing or christmas either" , when they call to see if they can see their kid for a day. so when they are sitting there looking at a pile of bills they may never be able to pay off and there wife tells them that they are stupid to love a motorcycle and that they should sell it to pay bills maybe that person puts the gun down and writes a Big Announcement . hell what do i know its just a thought.
race1, I would tell that someone to find someone to talk to quick...and to not use a permanent solution for temporary problems. The Christmas season sometimes gets people down due to situations, financial or otherwise.Why the big announcements well it could be that after someone has drank about a 5th of jack daniels and they are sitting alone in the dark with a 45 pressed to their head and all the sudden it hits them that if they do it who is gonna help their momma when she gets drunk and falls between the tub and the toilet who is gonna pay child support for their kid that they might have overheard them say in the background "I dont want to see him on thanksgiveing or christmas either" , when they call to see if they can see their kid for a day. so when they are sitting there looking at a pile of bills they may never be able to pay off and there wife tells them that they are stupid to love a motorcycle and that they should sell it to pay bills maybe that person puts the gun down and writes a Big Announcement . hell what do i know its just a thought.
That's a whole other kind of big announcement.......Why the big announcements well it could be that after someone has drank about a 5th of jack daniels and they are sitting alone in the dark with a 45 pressed to their head and all the sudden it hits them that if they do it who is gonna help their momma when she gets drunk and falls between the tub and the toilet who is gonna pay child support for their kid that they might have overheard them say in the background "I dont want to see him on thanksgiveing or christmas either" , when they call to see if they can see their kid for a day. so when they are sitting there looking at a pile of bills they may never be able to pay off and there wife tells them that they are stupid to love a motorcycle and that they should sell it to pay bills maybe that person puts the gun down and writes a Big Announcement . hell what do i know its just a thought.
I already had tons of respect for you Mr. Brown......Good Man! I think very highly of you for this apology and others will too.I went outside and had a cigarette, and did some thinking. I suppose that my original post could be considered harsh, I guess that's one of the shortcomings of the internet. In light of some PM's, and some of the replies to the thread, I think an apology is in order. If anyone was offended by my tone, I am truly sorry. I realize that some folks put more stock in friendships formed over the net than others, there's nothing wrong with that, and to criticize that was never my intention. Ya'll take it easy....
hey bro your a good man no doubt. thanksI went outside and had a cigarette, and did some thinking. I suppose that my original post could be considered harsh, I guess that's one of the shortcomings of the internet. In light of some PM's, and some of the replies to the thread, I think an apology is in order. If anyone was offended by my tone, I am truly sorry. I realize that some folks put more stock in friendships formed over the net than others, there's nothing wrong with that, and to criticize that was never my intention. Ya'll take it easy....
I think very highly of you .
I wasn't, and I don't think you need to apologize either.If anyone was offended by my tone, I am truly sorry.
So, DAB, how long have you resented your father for not taking you to the circus as a child?
REV, that is not at all what he was trying to say. He did not try to tell people when or where to post. He simply asked a logical question....one I have asked myself a few times when I saw those threads. If you are leaving, why all the fan fair? The question makes a lot of sense, and yes, some of the answers also make a lot of sense, including yours. A lot of folks post up that they aren't going to be around so those of us who consider them friends do not worry when suddenly they stop posting.Gotta ask Mr. Brown, WHY THE HELL WORRY ABOUT IT? WHY Waste the time to post about it??? If you don't feel like saying "Later" to someone who's leaving then DON'T, ignore it, just move along...
But creating a thread about it, makes no sense.
"If you're leaving, just go........" Who are you to tell folks how or when they can post? Seriously. This isn't YOUR BOARD!
Not trying to stir the pot but I find this offensive when you've not even been here a year and your going to tell fellow board members how they can and cannot say they are taking a break?
A lot of folks post up that they aren't going to be around so those of us who consider them friends do not worry when suddenly they stop posting. Ya know?
So I'd say they post because they care... Because they don't want people to worry... In the past when folks who post often suddenly stopped it has been becuase of an accident or other problems... They know this and are trying to avoid the endless stream of emails, and pm's wondering what happened...
I thought it was a fair question, and some fair answers were given. But there may have been just a hint of hostility in your post, but not much.I went outside and had a cigarette, and did some thinking. I suppose that my original post could be considered harsh, I guess that's one of the shortcomings of the internet. In light of some PM's, and some of the replies to the thread, I think an apology is in order. If anyone was offended by my tone, I am truly sorry. I realize that some folks put more stock in friendships formed over the net than others, there's nothing wrong with that, and to criticize that was never my intention. Ya'll take it easy....