Sagge, strictly speaking a dowry is a sum of money or valuables that a bride's family gives to the husband at the time of marriage in many countries.
In India for instance, the bride's family often gives cows to the husband as a dowry. And fequently, if the wife's family does not come through with the dowry they promised, the husband will murder the wife. It's called "dowry death" and the law just ignores it.
A dowry is intended to insure the future wealth and security of a married couple.
I kind of bent the word to my purposes in my post to you. Sorry for using an obscure word...I know English is not your first language.
So, do I get my dowry or not?
[This message has been edited by Dirty Pete (edited 18 December 1999).]