Scooterlord -
One more thing, this is meant to be constructive, not a slam. You seem to be stuck on yourself. I state this because someone who isn't stuck on themselves wouldn't even think to pat themselves on the back as much as you did.
My reason for stating this, when you are good, you are good and there is nothing wrong with being good in a lot of things and being blessed with looks and abilities, however as time goes on and people praise you, you will often become stuck on yourself. And sometimes if you talk about yourself too much and about how awesome you are, while you think it is truthful, some might find it nauseating.
You might not have been like this when you first met her, and after a few years of showing people how awesome you are and being praised, maybe without knowing it you have become self absorbed to the point where as I said, you are becoming nauseating.
If you are "self absorbed" as I think you might be, this might be becoming a turn off to her
Do a self check, sit down and contemplate yourself. Think of some of the things you say, and do. And now step away from yourself and put yourself in a position of someone else and think to yourself "ok, if I were in this situation and someone came up to me and said all the stuff I say, what would I think of that person"
I try to often do that to myself every once in awhile just to make a self analysis to see if I am becoming a jerk.. ok, I already am a jerk, but a worse jerk that I currently am lol
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One more thing, this is meant to be constructive, not a slam. You seem to be stuck on yourself. I state this because someone who isn't stuck on themselves wouldn't even think to pat themselves on the back as much as you did.
My reason for stating this, when you are good, you are good and there is nothing wrong with being good in a lot of things and being blessed with looks and abilities, however as time goes on and people praise you, you will often become stuck on yourself. And sometimes if you talk about yourself too much and about how awesome you are, while you think it is truthful, some might find it nauseating.
You might not have been like this when you first met her, and after a few years of showing people how awesome you are and being praised, maybe without knowing it you have become self absorbed to the point where as I said, you are becoming nauseating.
If you are "self absorbed" as I think you might be, this might be becoming a turn off to her
Do a self check, sit down and contemplate yourself. Think of some of the things you say, and do. And now step away from yourself and put yourself in a position of someone else and think to yourself "ok, if I were in this situation and someone came up to me and said all the stuff I say, what would I think of that person"
I try to often do that to myself every once in awhile just to make a self analysis to see if I am becoming a jerk.. ok, I already am a jerk, but a worse jerk that I currently am lol
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