Thank you all for your kind wishes! His cathe was removed this morning (4 AM); I'll bet they flushed 15 gallons of fluid thru him (1 HUGE bag about every 45 minutes). He can go on his own, no clots, fairly clear urine. He had a decent night last night and got some sleep, but got disoriented a couple of times and tried to get out of bed and walk to bathroom, forgetting he was tubed to the bed. I think they will release him today.
I got about an hour total sleep last night, and here I am at work (don't know how long I'll last).