I am (was) self-employed, and have/had been for the last seventeen years. (Going back to school during recovery time from a m/c accident, oddly enough!) The dynamics of health care appear to have dramatically shifted from humane service provider to a prioritized, profit motivated industry, meaning we focus attention on where we can make the most money regardless of long-term (if any) social benefits (and then use every excuse of/to/for increasing expenditures to claim such benefit). The complexities and monstrosity of the insurance/health care system became so overwhelming several years ago, I chose to stay out of it.
My idea for health care does include personal accountability for leading as healthy a lifestyle as I can and raising my family the same way. When medical/dental/optometrist expenses come up, we offer to pay cash (usually provider discounted because of that) or make payments. At times, payments have put us in situations where we have taken several months to pay off these expenses, but so far, haven't come close to paying what others have to pay monthly just for insurance. (How interesting some would think $3600 annually for just health insurance is a good deal, not counting what out of pocket would be for this type of coverage when an expense does comes up.)
I remeber not too long ago most people would brag about the amount of health care coverage they could get for just a hundred dollars a month (and this while running to the doctor for every runny nose, bump or bruise just to take advantage of the coverage.) We all jumped on the band wagon because we thought it was so great and this is where this has brought us.
No sir, folks. We can point our finger at everyone else but it comes down to us. We allowed it because we let someone else do our thinking for us and stop telling them how we thought (sensibly and reasonably with proper application of intelligent, critical thinking.)
Insurance is a funny thing. It gives people the idea that "Now I can afford to fix my car, house, body because I've got other people paying for it with their premiums." (Whether we think this or not, this is what it comes down to.) This means we pay for someone elses problems, which I can accept until someone elses problems become bigger and bigger because "I can get insurance to pay for fixing my car, house, body." It seems that what we thought was going to make life easier, happier, and better to enjoy is going to rob us of all that because we counted on somebody/something else to take the responsibility for our own actions.
I know, I know. This is way too oversimplified and there are way too many other details to consider and "it appears way too late to do anything about it" (at least, that's what some would want us to believe.) But it is desperate times for some people and becoming desperate for more and more as we continue reaping what we've sown.
What if everyone in the country opted out of health care and developed their own "pay as you go" plan? Consider the families who suffer major, catastrophic medical expenses from any number of maladies, who even end up losing a loved one (or their own life, for that matter) because they just couldn't afford to pay for medical care? Or how about the guy who needs life support during the first part of his accident recovery because he didn't wear a helmet in his motorcycle accident and his family has to chose to just "let him go?"
Yea, it can get pretty complex, but what if? We have become much too soft a people through all our "gotta haves to be happy now" to let life exist in some far less comfortable state to endure such hardships.
And so we will pay....and pay... and pay...until the value of life becomes defined by what it will cost to lose it for someone else and not what it costs just for us to hang on to it.