Well, all I'm asking is that we come to a general agreement on a specific weeeknd in April and September so those of us that don't get to pick and choose due to kids' schedules can make plans. Omar and I have 5 kids between us, parenting times that vary across 2 states, spring and fall breaks that are never at the same times...it was nice when it seemed everyone knew these bashes were "the last full weekend of April or September", but that's changed just this year.
I don't care which one is chosen, but let's decide and keep it that way. I realize Grumpy was working around Anastasia's schedule and doing food for the masses, but the Diner is no more according to posts earlier this year, so I think it's safe to say we can choose a set weekend so others can plan accordingly around crazy scheduling we all have...