Faithful husbands/ faithful relationships

different world...… u don't wanna see it? look at our parents/grandparents relationships...…. they STAYED together.... through anything.... now... its different…. the morals and society itself is different.... the women in their 20s and 30's by and large are thinking like men.... living their own lives independent.....
 
ali123 said:
lol... its just funny to me the conflicting views and general worldviews in general.… these girls nowadays are not the same as previous generations.... they have become just like men.....
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And again that depends upon the man you use as your reference. My current girl is a physician. She was an MD at 29. Got there on accelerated programs. Book smarter than I will ever be. She doesn't need my money, my stuff or my help to get by. No kids. No debt. No dramas. Good figure. Nice on the eyes. Quite a bit younger than me.

She just got selected to speak as keynote speaker at American Medical Women's Association in early November. At the time she became a physician she was about 1 of 1% in the country.

She wouldn't take up with a dude that didn't offer her something she didn't already have. The fact that I have her wanting to come home to please me at the end of her long days is all the egg I need in my basket.
 
mabupa said:
Now I’m even more confused. Lol!
So, let me ask, the girl you are with now is the same one you broke up with and posted about a little while ago?
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Yeah I thought I remember a break up story after the Busa came into his life.
 
TallTom said:
And again that depends upon the man you use as your reference. My current girl is a physician. She was an MD at 29. Got there on accelerated programs. Book smarter than I will ever be. She doesn't need my money, my stuff or my help to get by. No kids. No debt. No dramas. Good figure. Nice on the eyes. Quite a bit younger than me.

She just got selected to speak as keynote speaker at American Medical Women's Association in early November.

She wouldn't take up with a dude that didn't offer her something she didn't already have. The fact that I have her wanting to come home to please me at the end of her long days is all the egg I need in my basket.
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good for you man... got any pics?
 
We had a fight.... few days later we made up.. and im surprised u remember that... im living in ure head rent free!!!!!! Admit it... if u remember that.... ure interested in what im saying... my girl is in Kosovo right now with her mom.... I couldn't get the time off...… so I have a lot of free time.
 
ali123 said:
different world...… u don't wanna see it? look at our parents/grandparents relationships...…. they STAYED together.... through anything.... now... its different…. the morals and society itself is different.
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Remember that it was a good and a bad thing back then. Yes, a lot of my relatives have been married close to 50 years and are happy. Others have lived miserable lifes with the husband treating them very bad and they’ve put up with it, because that’s how they were raised, which is wrong too.
 
mabupa said:
Remember that it was a good and a bad thing back then. Yes, a lot of my relatives have been married close to 50 years and are happy. Others have lived miserable lifes with the husband treating them like very bad and they’ve put up with it, because that’s how they were raised, which is wrong too.
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but they still made it work.... due to society and expectations.
 
ali123 said:
We had a fight.... few days later we made up.. and im surprised u remember that... im living in ure head rent free!!!!!! Admit it... if u remember that.... ure interested in what im saying... my girl is in Kosovo right now with her mom.... I couldn't get the time off...… so I have a lot of free time.
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I “listen” to what everyone says here and have a great memory, so don’t feel that special. :laugh:
 
Im home alone and not cheating.... thank u very much...… I will admit.... I am kinda a fat mess lately and women aren't approaching me anymore... so i don't get full credit.
 
mabupa said:
Remember that it was a good and a bad thing back then. Yes, a lot of my relatives have been married close to 50 years and are happy. Others have lived miserable lifes with the husband treating them very bad and they’ve put up with it, because that’s how they were raised, which is wrong too.
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They put up with it because they had no job skills back then. If the man was a dyck, they had a long miserable life to endure.
 
TallTom said:
If it matters that much to you yes they are pics of her posted here. Everybody gives you chyt if you don't have pics. If it matters that much, you can find them.
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lol... I just would think u would be soooo proud of her....u would want to post pics.... I am not a white collar person... im from the bottom... projects kid... but im happy with what I have.... "ghetto fabulous"
 
ali123 said:
lol... I just would think u would be soooo proud of her....u would want to post pics.... I am not a white collar person... im from the bottom... projects kid... but im happy with what I have.
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I was relating to how you think they have turned into men nowadays. She has a better job than most men these days and scores higher on her board exams then all the male physicians she works with. Yet they still try and talk down on her when she shows her skills are better then theirs.

I'm proud that she finds me to be of the caliber to devote her time to try and make me happy. She certainly could have her pick of dudes. I worried that my A game wouldn't be enough. Turns out my A game was better than the C games she was used to dealing with. And I didn't have to change myself to get an A game. She likes me for the same reasons I like her. We don't have to worry about being mismatched.
 
ali123 said:
Initially I wanted to see who would MAN up and admit to some cheating in their past.... nobody did.... even from their youth.....
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This comment alone sounds as though you are insinuating that some of us a BSing when we say we've never cheated. I'll never have to "man up" and admit that I fooled around in my younger years because I stayed man enough then to never cheat in the first place.
 
TallTom said:
I was relating to how you think they have turned into men nowadays. She has a better job than most men these days and scores higher on her board exams then all the male physicians she works with. Yet they still try and talk down on her when she shows her skills are better then theirs.

I'm proud that she finds me to be of the caliber to devote her time to try and make me happy. She certainly could have her pick of dudes. I worried that my A game wouldn't be enough. Turns out my A game was better than the C games she was used to dealing with. And I didn't have to change myself to get an A game. She likes me for the same reasons I like her. We don't have to worry about being mismatched.
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good for you.... u must be very happy... shes rare.... ure blessed in ure own way.... for me... I don't care what the woman does for a living at all... what social class she belongs to.... what special skills she has... I didn't even share what my girl does for a living.... don't need to... I know what our bond is... I would take a shank in the chest/catch a bullet for her... not much azes me anymore... ive seen the worst.... I could tell u stories that would make ure blood turn cold... and her being Albanian... shes tough as nails...…
 
GAmedic said:
This comment alone sounds as though you are insinuating that some of us a BSing when we say we've never cheated. I'll never have to "man up" and admit that I fooled around in my younger years because I stayed man enough then to never cheat in the first place.
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well man.... many young people make mistakes..... takes a big man to admit to it though....
 
ali123 said:
well man.... many young people make mistakes..... takes a big man to admit to it though....
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100% will agree with you there. I firmly believe history repeats itself so if you cheat once, chances are you'd do it again. Again, my moral compass guides me strongly.
 
my girl could cheat on me with 5 different guys.... doesn't matter to me... I haven't exactly been an angel in my past.... we have a special bond...
 
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