I am so sorry to hear that you and your suffering this loss, especially on top of so many other traumas. They take their toll, and we need help dealing with them so they don't affect our ability to live our lives fully. I suggest you and your brother give a call to your local Red Cross, tell them the whole story as you have told us here, and see how they can help. That's what they do is help people whose lives have been turned upside down, so they will get you access to resources that can help you and your family deal with and hopefully heal from the pile of trauma that has landed on top of you all. At least you have each other. It's much much harder to go through hard times alone.
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