I had the same problem, I gathered the same advice. #1Work on supporting yourself more upright with your back to relieve weight on the hands. #2 loosen your grip, Hold them like eggs. #3 if your as cheap as me and dont want to spend alot of dough just to be able to comfortably ride youre machine, Wrap the grips to youre liking with Easton baseball bat grip to make them softer and larger so you dont have to squeeze your hand around those little bitty stock grips, They were designed by 5'5" 150 lb asians. my 2 cents