Dang it. and I really wanted to not say anything more
Yes, there are fricken losers all over this world that prefer fricken hand outs rather than work.
I will give some examples.
years ago I saw this guy in front of a store asking for money for food. I always try to help people out when I can, but I try to follow my instincts.
I did not feel right about giving him money but I did anyway. Primarily out of compassion and also since I am a Christian I try to go by what the bible says about charity and if someone asks you for something you should give it to them (since then however I have also added to my brain group being charitible but at the same time being a good steward of what God has given to me to have stewardship over).
Sure enough, gave the guy some money, about 10 minutes later I saw him walking out of the store with booze. no food, just booze.
This kind of bugged me, so I went and sought counsel from my pastor about what to do in situations like that since it bothered me not to give money but it bothered me also to give money and have it used for something other than what it was intended for
My pastors response was if someone is asking you for money for food, don’t give them money, but offer to take them to a place you can buy the meal for them.
Since then I have tried to do that as I am led.
Continued stories are as follows.
When I have had people ask me for money for food and I tell them I wont give them money but I will buy them a meal, most turn me down.
One time I had two guys except my offer. I was in Bakersfield. Just got back from a watching a full contact event. Stopped at a Carl’s junior and there were these two guys sitting out front. Asked me for some money for food, said they were stranded that there car had broke down.
I told them I would not give them any money but if they came inside I would buy them whatever they wanted and they jumped up and thanked me, we all went inside I paid for the meals, we ate together and I split.
Another time I was traveling with a friend and saw this lady on a busy street corner with 3 kids playing on the side walk. She had this big sign that read she and her children were homeless and was wanting food.
After feeling a conviction to help, and having my friend drive around the block like 5 times before I had the nerve to get out and talk to her, I finally got out of the car at the corner and my friend drove off. I talked to her and she said she was homeless and needed food for her and her children.
I told her I would not give her money, but I told her I was going to be in town for like 3 days and that I would pay for a room just for her and her children for the 3 days I was there and take care of their meals for the three days.
Her response was one of shock and then she said… “well actually I am staying at a friends and I really don’t need a place to stayâ€
I then offered to buy her and her children a meal and she turned me down.
Had a friend of mine I had not seen in like 20 years look me up once. Told me how he used to be hooked on heroin and he used to stand on street corners in L.A. asking for hand outs and if someone pulled a wallet out to give him money he would grab their wallet and run.
I agree with what Justintime says about the Mayor of NO, I don’t see him as a black man or a white man, I don’t see him as any color, what I see is a jerk who seems to have been doing a piss poor job at being mayor and regardless of his race, sexual orientation or anything else, the guy screwed up and should at least be taken out of office.
There is NOTHING racist about that. It is holding someone accountable for something they should be accountable for. And if ANYONE throws race into the picture THEY are the ones that have a race issue.
I would care if Mayor Nagin or whatever his name is was my blood brother, I would tell him he screwed up and should resign before he gets axed.
And yes, unless you were elderly, crippled or in some other way incapacitated, they COULD have gotten out. Most people who stayed did so because no one wants to leave there home. Nor did anyone think it would have been as bad as it was.
When I was in Beaufort South Carolina when Hurricane Hugo went through, the base told us to get the heck out of dodge. Most people left, some stayed. After it was over with went home and there was no damage to Beaufort.
And as far as the government being responsible for saving someone’s a$$ for not saving their own a$$ guess what? Here in California for example, often if hiker or rock climber someone gets lost or in someway needs rescuing and it can be proven that they required assistance out of their own negligence, the person or persons who are rescued get sent a bill for the cost of the service to rescue them.
I don’t know how often people get billed for rescues, but it happens if someone risks their own life and screws up.
So the majority of people that stayed was due to their own belief that things would not be as bad as they turned out to be and it is NOT the governments responsibility to save someone from themselves.
It is called natural selection. Regardless of sex or race, people that make unwise decisions just usually do not live that long.
A prime example of this mentality is look at this new storm Rita, people saw what happened 3 weeks ago so people are taking this crap serious now (at least in Texas) I just read this on my news feed, check this shid out!!!! Ok NOW I will call those people stupid!!!
New Orleans Residents in No Rush to Leave
WTF!!! these people almost got wiped off the fricken map 3 weeks ago and they are still not heeding the warnings!!!!
Personally, if N.O. gets hit a second time by a huge hurricane within 3 weeks, I am going to look at it as a sign that maybe God does not approve of the life style in that area of the country.
Stop beating this racist crap into the ground. it does not have a fricken thing to do with race, it has to do with natural disasters and humans not making proper choices.
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