I don't know how I missed it, just caught the thread today. Wow is all I can say, speechless especially at how much you remember. So many that have similar incidents never remember anything, sometimes that is a good thing, sometimes it is not.
Do what you have to do to heal, I'm sure it's going to take some time and hopefully even your right arm gets full recovery. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and as it has been said before, you were left here for a reason, there is something you have left to do. With any luck a few more people may wear gear after reading your story.
And that one question I haven't seen posted yet, did the one that caused this all stop?
Take care bro and get well!