Schexy1
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*** I'm not looking for consolation, pats on the back, or "sorry dude". I'm looking for shared experiences. ***
So, I meet a young lady on a dating site. We go out to meet for coffee. We talk, laugh, share experiences, etc. We chatted for 3 freaking hours.... When leaving, I gave her a hug (since she's very conservative). We texted back and forth the next couple of days and added each other on facebook. Then, I awoke this morning with an email saying she didn't want a relationship right now and wanted to learn more about me, but at this point only wanted to be friends, so she could again build a relationship with God.... Ok, fine.
I was thrown into the friend zone! OH NOES!
Alright guys and gals, tell me your "thrown into the friend zone" woes!
I think men have been blinded by arrogance or chivalry and keep a traditional view of women and dating. We still try to put women on a virtuous pedestal and ignore the fact that they got game now.
You might be suprised to find out what are her definitions of a friend and a relationship.