Bill, your household is not my concern, nor do I have a right to tell you or your household what to do.(JINKSTER @ May 10 2007,21:27)ya know what?...sometimes it's real easy to be cynical and judgemental of others and spew out the obvious...then feel all rightous and dignified cause you feel you have a superior view of things (as folks often times truely do) when you're on the outside looking in...however...without knowing ALL the surrounding particulars?...you may find your aim to be way off.(thrasherfox @ May 10 2007,15:24) So Jinks, be a man and take control of your house. sheeeeesh.
It is your fricken household to run.
Your wife and your daughters are YOUR responsibility.
If something is happening in your household you don't like it is you responsibility as father and husband to handle in whatever way you see fit.
If you think the shows they are watching are inappropriate and they wont respect your wishes, wait until the ladies of the house are gone and get rid of every fricken TV in the house.
You should be able to talk to your wife about this and have her back you up, if your wife wont back you up on this then you have deeper problems than a mere TV show.
My wife and I back each other up on everything, especially when it comes to the kids. you both need to back each other up.
and when it comes to TV shows, if one of you has issues with a show, then the common denominator should be to not allow the show to be watched in the house
There are a lot of shows I don't allow to be watched in my house.
Cartoons that are not allowed to be watched in the house, and videos that are not allowed to be rented.
There was one show one of my sons was watching and it was only on cable, he did not just take my hint to not watch it so instead of blocking it, I just called the cable company and had my cable turned off for about 6 months.
Take charge, complaining about it is not going to do anything, you need to do something about it. I don't care a whole lot about TV anyway, if I were in your shoes and nothing else worked, then I would put all the tv's in storage or something until everyone got the point....
And you can get offended all you want about what is being aired, it wont do any good, all you have control over is your household.
Bottom line?...my wife and i have lived together for 18 years and married 16 of them..in the same house...in the same town...with three daughters...and for all those years?..my wife never missed a sunday with the man who married us...and she made sure that the girls didn't miss a sunday either...as a matter of fact?...Last nite?...wifey ran the wednesday night church youth group meeting..but also?..since the day i first met her?...she's also run/own/operated her own hair salon in town...right across the street from city hall....and sometimes?..."Marriage"...means making certain compromises along lifes path together...so?...tell ya what..since you're so certain of the exact steps to take?...and since it's seems that i'm somewhat less than a MAN of my household here?...be a bud...you show me how...come on over and step into my home and inform my wife that you'll now be banning any future viewings of ugly betty in my household then?...simply reach over and shut the tube down...and then i'll get to see a real entertaining show...you getting bludgeoned to death with the bloody stump of what used to be the arm you attempted to turn ugly betty off with!
But thanks for the He-Man advice...L8R, Bill.
and I sure in the heck am not going to tell another mans wife what to do, that is not my business nor my concern.
But as a Christian man I am laying it on the line to you. that is your job, if you don't have the balls to take control of your household, dont try putting it off on someone else.
Your responsibility bud, no one elses. and if your wife goes to church, and you do also, there shouldn't be an issue, your wife should submit to your wishes as long as you are being the man of God you are supposed to be (i.e. not taking advantage of that position)
doesn't matter to me if she goes to church 7 days a week, if she isn't listening to your counsel as her husband and spiritual leader then that tells me something is wrong.
You come on here whining about your problems, then I tell you what the problem is and the solution and you get all offended by it. open your eyes bud and listen to what I am telling you. I am being as honest with you about your situation as I can be. I am not trying to be a jerk, nor am I trying to piss you off. but I am being 100% honest
And the honest bottom line here is you are head of your household. if you are the man of God you should be, and your wife is the woman of God she seems to be. then there should be no problems with saying this show will not be watched in your house.
Start with talking to your wife in private, it sounds like she is a good Christian woman and she will probably submit to your counsel.
Your daughters you will more than likely get static from, there kids, your parents, it is in their nature to argue, complain and not want to listen to you. but as long as you and your wife are on the same page backing each other up you two can control the issue. You just need to step up to the plate and do what you know is right..