women and their damn shoes!

Lycan said:
Personally, the walking angle of a woman in high heels shows off her...err..assets..:laugh:

Yeah ridiculous how MANY pair seem to be needed, but a nice pair of heels gives a womans walk that nice wiggle we ALL seem to like....am I alone on this one?:whistle:
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Nope, You ARE right.
 
MelodicMetalGod said:
Their choice. If I may suggest a couple rules:

1) Don't allow her to complain to you about it. She made the choice with full knowledge of the issues and she can bear the pain in silence!

2) Don't EVER do ANYTHING to accommodate the poor choice. Don't carry a spare set of shoes for her, don't walk with her back to the car for a shoe change, don't leave a place early b/c her feet hurt, etc. Again, she made the choice, suffer in silence.

3) NEVER buy her a "stupid" shoe. EVER! If you do you'll be doing two things: 1) Encouraging poor health and 2) Sending her a "signal" that you prefer to see her in stupid shoes, thus reinforcing the all too common lady's belief that their men don't like how they look in sensible shoes.

4) Offer to buy her a "sensible" shoe (any shoe that is functional for movement and health) anytime she wants IF she agrees to wear them at certain walking events (bike shows, hiking, walking tours, etc). If you can get her into good shoes on the rare occassion, there's a good chance that she'll start making that choice on her own after a while.

Best of luck!
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Boy, is that easier said than done...........seriously! Not enabling just makes the wait seem longer as she stomps/clods/sulks back to the room or whereever to change to another pair because they hit her toes in a different place. That's like saying that if Lamb gets out of the bathroom faster or earlier in the morning that his girl will be ready quicker. Like that's gonna happen.........Just saying!
 
Lamb busa said:
Boy, is that easier said than done...........seriously! Not enabling just makes the wait seem longer as she stomps/clods/sulks back to the room or whereever to change to another pair because they hit her toes in a different place. That's like saying that if Lamb gets out of the bathroom faster or earlier in the morning that his girl will be ready quicker. Like that's gonna happen.........Just saying!
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Hey, never said it was gonna be easy. If it was easy, everybody'd be doin' it, right? ;) And there's no guarantee that you'll get perfect results. However, it's pretty much a given that if you DO enable, you'll continue to get the same results PLUS you'll have NO RIGHT TO COMPLAIN, just like the woman who continues to make the choice to wear "Cruel Shoes"! :rulez:
 
Dino said:
No you don't, you do it because you want to think you look better than the other hens in the coop.

Guys don't give a crap. We would only care about your shoes if your boobies were on your feet.


Lamb there are some things we will never know or understand. It is better to direct your emotions toward something you might be able to have an impact on, like making pigs fly.....:whistle:
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Now, THAT I can agree with!!!:thumbsup:
 
Question? Am I the only lady here who has had the pleasure of dating a man who likes his woman to wear high heels and strappy shoes?? Do I get all the pervs with the foot fetishes or something? Lucky me, eh?
 
I have a small "foot fetish" thingy goin on....I do love me some cute feet on a woman.:whistle: All I can say is if her feet aren't busted....Me likely a pair of nice high heels & a summer dress. :thumbsup: However I can imagine how they would become uncomfortable after awhile

But do I want to hear endless complaining about which to wear or how it hurts!? Hell no! "Just choose a pair girl" "I trust your choice" or "Take em off & leave by the side of the bed":laugh:
 
Laylas_Mom said:
Question? Am I the only lady here who has had the pleasure of dating a man who likes his woman to wear high heels and strappy shoes?? Do I get all the pervs with the foot fetishes or something? Lucky me, eh?
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i prefer a nice pair of heels.....i do not date women in flip-flops or sandals.

however, part of the reason your shoes hurt your feet are:

1. you have too many, they never get broken in
2. they are often the wrong size
3. they are often designed poorly, with more emphasis placed on looks other than function

lastly its a problem with your behaviour.....if you spend 90% of the time walking around barefoot, or in sadals/flip-flops your feet will not be conditioned and used to wearing shoes.....
 
wingding said:
+1 :rofl: (If wifey only knew how much I spent on my pair of Sidi Vortice!)

Winter Riding Boots
Summer Riding Boots
Board Shoes X 2
Workout shoes
Deck Shoes
Running Shoes
High Tops X 2
Flip Flops
Sandles
Low dress boot for the office X 3
Soft-toe work boots for the contruction site
Steal-toe work boots for the contruction site
Ski boots
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I have this same collection but I have Kayak shoes and some football cleats in there somewhere.






Not Homo (Happy Dino?)
 
pbghost said:
I hear ya lamb...wifey and I go through the same dance...my logic-shorts=flip flops, not shorts=workboots, her logic-:whistle:still trying to figure that one out+ a closet full of shoes.
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see the problem there is the two terms.... shoes and women they don't = logic especially to guys. don't remember ever looking at a woman and going damn those are some cute shoes.
 
NickSully said:
I have this same collection but I have Kayak shoes and some football cleats in there somewhere.






Not Homo (Happy Dino?)
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Don't mind me bro, it is ok to be gay as far as I am concerned. I was just giving the other guys the benefit of the doubt.
 
Adam you forgot your high-heel patent-leather Pointer Sister Sneakers.....

Yes Elena has the shoe-thing too, but she's one of those special women that is very at home in spikes.....Spud is a lucky man.... :super:

That doesn't mean she hasn't the plethora of sparkle-flip-flops, riding boots, tennis shoes, but this woman has the serious spike collection.... :super:
 
Spudley said:
Adam you forgot your high-heel patent-leather Pointer Sister Sneakers.....

Yes Elena has the shoe-thing too, but she's one of those special women that is very at home in spikes.....Spud is a lucky man.... :super:

That doesn't mean she hasn't the plethora of sparkle-flip-flops, riding boots, tennis shoes, but this woman has the serious spike collection.... :super:
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:easy: spud :laugh:
 
Laylas_Mom said:
Question? Am I the only lady here who has had the pleasure of dating a man who likes his woman to wear high heels and strappy shoes?? Do I get all the pervs with the foot fetishes or something? Lucky me, eh?
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No foot fetish but Elena shares your pain...well not really, but the perv comment fits.... :super: Me likey the spikes, and small lingerie, and whatever else she puts on, i.e. brown paper bags, Dr.Pepper cartons, she can wear anything or nothing at all, just the shoes is fine too !!!...."WHATEVER" !!! :oldcool:
 
Lycan said:
Personally, the walking angle of a woman in high heels shows off her...err..assets..:laugh:

Yeah ridiculous how MANY pair seem to be needed, but a nice pair of heels gives a womans walk that nice wiggle we ALL seem to like....am I alone on this one?:whistle:
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I've seen many the woman who has mastered that skill WITHOUT the back-killing, wallet-draining shoes. :whistle:
 
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