071300r, as I explained to you in PM - any further posting on this topic from me would not be beneficial to anyone, as I've already said my peace and any additional posts would be redundant. I also don't have any desire to antagonize the forum admins further. Since you and I did a ride recently, I thought I'd correct you on your claim that it's expensive to host a forum:
phpBB, SMF, etc are all free. vB is commercial, so you can't discount it's cost - $190 for a one site license (one time fee)
12 years ago, it cost me $1,000 a month to run a T1 for my web sites. I've done various colo options (rackspace, ev1, etc), but these days you can get a 20 mbps pipe for under $100 and host whatever you want. Hence my comment on it being cheap to run a forum these days. I run a half dozen sites, they range from PR 4 to PR 7. Nothing fancy, I do it for fun. I'm a software engineer by trade, so this is all basic stuff to me.
I don't know what's up your ass - but my telling you that your statement about 'forums costing a lot to run' in PM doesn't constitute cowardliness. As a local in the Tampa area, I thought I could be open with my feelings on the topic without aggravating the issue here further. It doesn't make any sense for me to post here what I told you in private. Obviously I misjudged you. You have some personal issues, but I won't get into that. I'm only elaborating because you choose to post my PM on this forum.
Needless to say, I have enough background to understand that one cannot push the owner of a site - they own the site and can do as they wish. In Captain's place, I would ban anyone who kept complain about something I had no desire to change.