guys, i totally agree with you all. i will admit that i did react in a way that was totally unneccessary. i did alot of thinkin today and realized that this is a bad situation for me to put myself in. i over reacted big time. i guess i was jsut pissed at the hole situation and obviously lost my cool. i spoke with her today and we agreed to split. no hard feelings or anything and she totally understands my point of view with the whole thing. well, im spinnin records right now but everyone take it easy!!