Doug, don't let this (one more brick from the pile we call life) get in the way of your already hectic life. My brother sit back, relax, and thank God you are so blessed. Your a very good person and I have a lot of respect for you and the Mrs. What you need to do now right now my brother is just take it easy. Get healed up through a little well deserved R&R.... I promise this will all work out in the end.