Debating "should I turn pro or not"

[semi]

Can you see yourself without her and also without half your stuff...

been married twice and the best piece of advice i ever received was to get a prenup...your lawyer is your best friend!

 

[dadofthree]

we were supposed to get sponsors?? :huh:

I'm still waiting too

 

[dadofthree]

Can you see yourself without her and also without half your stuff...

You must a had a jam up lawyer; that's all her stuff and half your stuff which equal 3/4 of the couples stuff

 

[Laylas_Mom]

Well Laylas_mom likes your big feet ;-)
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:::giggle:::

 

[notright]

I always said well , not always but on ocassion, before you marry a woman take her camping. You can learn a lot in a short amount of time. You said she rides to work in the rain ! She sounds like a happy camper to me a real for better or worse kinda woman in short a keeper.

 

[redkat05]

:::giggle:::

SEE DUDE! TOLD YA
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[bazmaniac]

Question, How did you guys meet your spouse?

I met my "other half" whilst working on the production of a low budget hard-core xxx rated **** movie......she was workin' as the "fluffer" girl and I was doing outside camera & "special" sound effects (oink, oink, grunt, groan......).
It was just over 5 & a half years ago, give or take a cuppla weeks, & I still remember it so incredibly vividly like it was juz yesserday.....
Due to budget constraints, I remember we were on a really incredibly toight schedule (she had to "fluff" 12 ummm....."actors" in the space of 2 hrs).....& being the consumate professional that she was/still is, she was workin' really, really, REALLY hArD all morning !
There was something about this girl that had me totally mesmerized.....coz when she walked past me juz before we stopped filming for lunch-break, she caught my eye in a way that no woman has ever done before....
She had me totally intrigued (& slightly confused) at this point, mainly because she had a hUgE dollop of mayo hanging off the bottom of her chin, & she hadn't even had a bite of her ceasar salad (with creamy mayo) sandwich......???
To this very day, nearly 6 years later.....rather frequently, when I come home from work unexpectedly early and I hear what sounds like the back-door slamming as she rushes out of the bedroom to greet me with a big, sloppy kiss (and an incredibly similar mayo stain on her face just like when we first met).....there's still something that I juz can't quite understand what it is about this girl that makes me wonder why she totally fascinates (& disconbobulates) me so !!?!!?!!

 

[TonyMastodon]

Well Laylas_mom likes your big feet ;-)
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hahaha i just have big shoes, not feet
its a cover up

 

[BigJoesBusa]

If it aint broke then dont try to fix it.... I have been with my girl for 17 years and we are not married, we get along great . good luck if decide to go for the plunge

 

[Busa1166]

Good Luck Didn't work for me an never do it again, But nothing better than a marriage based on love, trust,understanding am most importantly lust an good sex you got all that don't think it can fail


Almost forgot never take advice from a bitter divorce' e

 

[brad]

Thanks for all the advise and insight. It is helping me. I think pre marrage counseling is next for us.

You guys are the best.

brad

 

[TheCycleGuy]

I'm also of the opinion that if you have to debate about it, it probably isn't the right move. I had the debate in my head with a few long term girlfriends, and decided to move on. When I met Celia, I was so smitten that I knew real quick she was a keeper. She even owns a dirtbike!

 

[dadofthree]

My girl doesn't own a bike but she bought one for me. Does that count for anything ?

 

[Dr E]

Can you see yourself not being with her? If not, marry her.

That cuts to the chase right there!

 

[BillD]

They all turn on you, ,, its just the way it is

 

[BillD]

and dont let anybody tell you otherwise,

 

[BillD]

really , Im not kidding

 

[Tufbusa]

Just because it feels good today, don't think it can't fail. Odds are, it will. Statistics don't Lie! The two quickest ways to end up broke and living in a two room apartment without your busa, is a woman and the IRS.

Engage your brain in gear before making the plunge. When a relationship is working well, it's a grand feeling but when it goes south, it's a miserable place to be. Just ask about 60% of the folks on this forum!

Look around you and count the number of your friends who are HAPPILY married? This may be better than any marriage counseling you can get.

Oh yes, and find out how many times your marriage counsler has been married before you pay him!

 

[BillD]

good point Tuf.. I remmarried myself after being divorced for 8 years,, why I dont know, I have a good woman, 15 years younger,, (that part is good for now,,,), but what I can tell you is we are a stupid stupid group of animals,,, she will ultimately turn on me, However my dogs wont

 

[jwest]

married 7 yrs...divorced...still lookin....

she rides and even when it rains...shes a keeper