*update*
thought i would give everyone an update. long story short, she got her son back friday after he got out of school and he doesnt EVER have to go back to see his father.
All during the last few days HER lawyer has went to court with a different judge and basically won it without her having to even be there. the lawyer showed all the fathers assault charges, DV charges, drug uses, ect... as well as 2 voice mails he left her saying how $ can buy off a judge and if she sleeps with him he will drop everything. so needless to say father is not allowed to be near the child and mother has sole custody of the child and he can never attempt to get custody or even visitation of the child again. and i guess that 1st judge is in some major **** now because of that whole "buy off the judge" voice mail, plus her $500 contempt of court was dropped. i will say it ended up costing some major coin, but it was well worth it. thank you everyone for ur ideas and support