I want to know your opinion

[afterhours]

last Saturday I was in a wedding.....

a long time friend, one of the only guys i still talk to from high school....

anyway, as we are taking pictures the photographer sitting on a rock next to this waterfall, with one of the bridesmaids(my buddies little sister, that i have known for 20 years) sitting on my lap.

there were 8 of us, we all took the same pictures...

well my date gets all pissy about it, so we have a little blow up. i eventually tell her to get over it or call herself a cab, because i am done talking about it.

she told me i should have told the photog. no, that was dis-respectful to my date....i told her it was harmless and she should deal with it.

what do you think?

 

[chrisjp]

insecurity is the destroyer of any relationship.. good you were secure in your thoughts...bad she was not. be understanding but hold your ground.

 

[dmrowe]

last Saturday I was in a wedding.....

a long time friend, one of the only guys i still talk to from high school....

anyway, as we are taking pictures the photographer sitting on a rock next to this waterfall, with one of the bridesmaids(my buddies little sister, that i have known for 20 years) sitting on my lap.

there were 8 of us, we all took the same pictures...

well my date gets all pissy about it, so we have a little blow up. i eventually tell her to get over it or call herself a cab, because i am done talking about it.

she told me i should have told the photog. no, that was dis-respectful to my date....i told her it was harmless and she should deal with it.

what do you think?

Please see this post...

https://www.hayabusa.org/forum/random-thoughts/114157-i-know-some-you-have-been-waiting-cough-projekt-cough-friggin-women.html

You can't reason with 'em.

 

[dadofthree]

Please see this post...

https://www.hayabusa.org/forum/random-thoughts/114157-i-know-some-you-have-been-waiting-cough-projekt-cough-friggin-women.html

You can't reason with 'em.

 

[2Wheels2Live]

Switch places...how would you feel about her sitting in another guys lap for pictures? You also have to keep in mind a relationship's about compromise, if you're not willing to work with a women, and she with you, then you probably won't have a long term relationship. Honestly for some folks its easier to get married and divorced over and over rather than put the work in to make a relationship last. And some folks are just better off staying single Relationships aren't for everybody

 

[BIG GUY]

Hold your ground is right. She is insecure about something. She should know that you are coming home to her and not the bridesmaid.

 

[Laylas_Mom]

last Saturday I was in a wedding.....

a long time friend, one of the only guys i still talk to from high school....

anyway, as we are taking pictures the photographer sitting on a rock next to this waterfall, with one of the bridesmaids(my buddies little sister, that i have known for 20 years) sitting on my lap.

there were 8 of us, we all took the same pictures...

well my date gets all pissy about it, so we have a little blow up. i eventually tell her to get over it or call herself a cab, because i am done talking about it.

she told me i should have told the photog. no, that was dis-respectful to my date....i told her it was harmless and she should deal with it.

what do you think?

I say you need to lose that girls phone number...

 

[Dino]

If you were one of the groomsmen and she was a bridesmaid then there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Or if you were friends with the girl and there was some siginificance to the bride and groom. Nothing wrong with it.

Now did your date take a cab? If so, did you hook up with the bridesmaid?

 

[Nick7]

Glad you stood your ground... you did nothing wrong in my eyes buddy but then again I am a guy so I am probably wrong.

 

[afterhours]

i am not the jealous type, so if she wastaking pictures on another guys lap.....in the same manner i was it would not bother me.

it would be different if i was trying to pick up, wispering things in the girls ear and things like that.....flirting.

i looked at no different than having to walk arm-in-arm with her, or having to dance with her.....it was just part of the ceremony..

 

[head east busa]

your right and I gotta agree lose that number and hope she forgets where you live. This situation was not your bad and she should have understood the scenario. But like Nick7 said I'm a guy so I'm probably also wrong. But I can live with being wrong

 

[MO-BUSA]

the green eyed monster rears its ugly head once again.....

 

[Laylas_Mom]

your right and I gotta agree lose that number and hope she forgets where you live. This situation was not your bad and she should have understood the scenario. But like Nick7 said I'm a guy so I'm probably also wrong. But I can live with being wrong

I am a girl and I think it is wack, booo on her for ruining an enjoyable night with your friends...

 

[Phil96]

Should have been more reasonable, but if she is nuts about you, best cut her some slack.
But what the hell do I know, I'm all burned out and used up. Horny notwithstanding.

 

[NickSully]

I need to see pics of all female parties involved before I can make a decision.

 

[SKnight]

So long as the photog was staging everyone the same then there's no issue. She could only have had something to say if you suggested it.

Make a decision about her and sleep on it. If you feel the same in the morning then carry it out.

 

[stlbusarider]

I think it was cool. It was for someone elses wedding, She should have let it go, as long as your hands weren't under her dress.

 

[BusaBlue]

I need to see pics of all female parties involved before I can make a decision.

+1 :mwink:

 

[Laylas_Mom]

dude...that kinda girl is gonna get jealous of your bike time too....move on now...boo on girls like that giving us sane ones a bad name...

 

[Busatized]

+1 :mwink:

+2 and if you have one with the bridesmaid sitting on your dates lap, it would be best from many perspectives.