Sounds like a LOT of advice from the insecure, fragile marriage crowd Bro......and if lunch is at the EASY STREET INN with hourly rates, is that ok?
just kidding. Seriously, *I* know where things are for me, and her life has never run smoothly so I assume she's still all over the board.
I kinda thought the response would be nearly 50-50. It would be hard for me to step away after promising to be there no matter what - I'll skip the whole back story, but she is used to people screwing her over, and I was able to somewhat "repair" some of that with my integrity. It would be like all I ever was, was a lie. You know? Thru other mutual friends, I'm aware she's lost a lot of family in the past few years, and I think she is just reconnecting with old friends... you know how death can make you realize the importance of certain other things in life
I'm not trying to justify my actions, I sort of already made my decision as stated above. VERY EXCELLENT FEEDBACK though, guys! Much appreciated. I am on excellent friendly terms with all 4 of my married EX's and normally we chat emails every year or so, but this one is different: still close, but very distant due to issues in her life. Sounds like the married sector is against this sort of thing and I am very glad to hear that. There will be no hanky panky at all guarenteed trust me on that
I should add, being single, sometimes I don't have a good perspective of married's life. So, thanks again for the feedback
Like I said, lunch is lunch... I've been spending a lot of hours lately with models... Young 20 somethings, beautiful, clever, not wearing much, and working the camera. I've been hanging out with em' socially after work, putting them on the back of the bike, etc... Friends, and sometimes they can really use the advice and company of an older man who is impartial and who has more experience out there in the world and isn't trying to get them into bed.... Well not all of them anyway.
The wife knows where I am, who I am with and what we are doing. We have a strong healthy relationship, and seriously, sometimes lunch is just lunch. If an old friend needs you then you answer the call and help plain and simple. Especially when they are previous lovers or spouses, you've got little to hide, and it's easy to talk to them about anything.