My heart is broken

Maybe a little time apart is what she needs to clear her head, she may realize that she needs you in her life as well.
 
Cheer up,I hope something work's out. All the good and bad Cindy and I have been through( some discussed here) I would be the heart broken tough guy if we ever split up.
 
Stay strong,if its yours eventually 1 day you and her will be back together.Fate is the word.Why dont you suggest to her,just chill out for awhile before breaking up?Let her settle her things first and from there see how things goes.Take care
 
i have dated two girls named Heather in my lifetime, both of them broke my heart, neither of them inspired me to write such kind words as you did for yours, I say give her 2-3 days and go get her....you can be there for her without having to actually fix whatever it is that is wrong. Just let her know you can actually listen to her without an opinion!
good luck...:beerchug: oh and if all else fails :moon:Nanner nanner nanner LOL
 
Are there any busa guys in the Bremerton area....I could someone to ride with.


You might want to clarify that....you aren't looking to replace you passenger...right? I ain't putting my arms around you, no way....:laugh:

Seriously....better now than when you both had made a commitment..she may work it out and return in due time. Hang in there.
 
Hope everything works out. In the mean time, find what you like to do and do it. If she sees you happy and moving forward, that will help.
 
Many of us have been through the same thing before, so we really know how you feel. Believe me--I promise you--if she's not in your future, there will be someone else that will ignite the same passion.
 
I'm with Lycan on this one. Go get her back.

--Wag--
 
I am going to see her this weekend, but we are going to break up on Sunday unless God works a miracle. I keep trying to fix things, but it just make things worse. For some reason, God doesn't want us together right now. I did everything I could, but its not enough. She just can't handle things right now.
But I am hoping against hope us seeing each other will make her want to fight things together. I would fight the armies of hell for her, trust me I would do anything to have her back right now, but she just needs some space to clear up some issues in her life. She wants to do it on her own. I miss her.
She is the best.
 
Let her know you will allway's be there if she need's someone to talk to.If you are that close she might only trust talking to you about certain thing's.Sometime's you have to do what you have to do.Personaly I hate change in any part of my life.Except a pay raise.
 
I am going to see her this weekend, but we are going to break up on Sunday unless God works a miracle. I keep trying to fix things, but it just make things worse. For some reason, God doesn't want us together right now. I did everything I could, but its not enough. She just can't handle things right now.
But I am hoping against hope us seeing each other will make her want to fight things together. I would fight the armies of hell for her, trust me I would do anything to have her back right now, but she just needs some space to clear up some issues in her life. She wants to do it on her own. I miss her.
She is the best.

Have you told her any of these feelings that you are sharing with us? Sometimes communication can get "garbled" between the sexes. ???

At this point all you can do is share your feelings and commitment level and hope she listens. Sometimes a little time & space can actually save a relationship. I know that is not what you want to hear right now, but it is so very true.

Hang in there.
 
You can't smother her - she will run just as hard as she can. State your feelings clearly, then step back (it will surprise her) and give her time to process. In the meantime, find other things that you enjoy (ride) and try not to let it bum you into depression.
 
Tell her how you really feel like in this thread of yours. Mabe you two could work things out, every couple has their ups and downs.
If You Love Something Set It Free
If It Comes Back, It Was And Always Will Be Yours.

If It Never Returns,
It Was Never Yours To Begin With. Try to work thing out with her.
 
If she feels the same way about you, you two will work something out.
I would not go after her, if she left, the ball is in her court.
As hard as it sounds you have to try and move on and not get depressed. I have been in similar situations and most here have had at least one broken heart in their lives.
It will get better but, you have to work at it. I wish there was an easy way to work through it.
Keep busy get out make new friends, there are many possibilities on the org.
Sorry there is no easy fix.
Heard about the bridge to Hawaii ?
 
I am going to see her this weekend, but we are going to break up on Sunday unless God works a miracle. I keep trying to fix things, but it just make things worse. For some reason, God doesn't want us together right now. I did everything I could, but its not enough. She just can't handle things right now.
But I am hoping against hope us seeing each other will make her want to fight things together. I would fight the armies of hell for her, trust me I would do anything to have her back right now, but she just needs some space to clear up some issues in her life. She wants to do it on her own. I miss her.
She is the best.


Now it is time to let God work. Turn it over to him and He will work it out. If she needs space, give it to her. Just check on her maybe once a week or so to see how she is doing. If she won't talk just leave her a message letting her know you a checking up on her. (avoid stalking) I hope it all works out bro. I hate to see anyone feeling like this.
 
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