Need some advice, am I being a Jerk?

Being pissed is unfortunately going to get you nowhere fast.

Tell her to facebook, or email the naked chick back if she does not believe you, to prove your innocence and ask her what she wants you to do, to make this right and to make it go away.

LOL, you have it easy, I started a sport bike club here online, six members joined and they were all girls. I ended up dropping the group, better safe than sorry.
 
Once I got to the stay at home mom, I almost stopped reading. Then i got to "facebook"....and stopped.

idle hands and FB = disaster.
 
Charlie - Charlie - Charlie, you don't really know a woman until you marry them, eh?

Your situation is more about control than mistrust.

My daddy told me I should change horses every five years whether I wanted to or not! :whistle:

It's worked great so far. :thumbsup:



They start young Charlie and this is how she looks at you! :laugh:

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Tufbusa said:
Charlie - Charlie - Charlie, you don't really know a woman until you marry them, eh?

Your situation is more about control than mistrust.

My daddy told me I should change horses every five years whether I wanted to or not! :whistle:

It's worked great so far. :thumbsup:



They start young Charlie and this is how she looks at you! :laugh:
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If it wasn't for that "weapon" there would be a bounty on every woman's head:laugh:
 
So what you're saying is I shouldn't go post anything suggestive on your FB page huh? :laugh:

Just tell her how this makes you feel (in a very calm way). Hope it gets worked out soon and your back to your happy self.
 
Blanca Busa said:
So Bots. You and Charlie are dating the same woman behind your wives backs?
I'm confused?
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:rofl::rofl::rofl:

On a serious note just sit down with her and explain to her that its spam and nothing more and if she still wants to "act a fool" then its on her. No disrespect. I can confirm that cuz I've gotten those messaages on my FB acc also.. :lol:
 
BlondeOnaBusa said:
So what you're saying is I shouldn't go post anything suggestive on your FB page huh? :laugh:

Just tell her how this makes you feel (in a very calm way). Hope it gets worked out soon and your back to your happy self.
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Dear Lord please don't do that. She already saw posts on this board from you and was all like..."who is Blonde on a busa and why do you talk to girls online". I got that stopped real quick but it would be hard to explaine who you are if you went and did that. Man....you girls are ruthless! Im telling Randy on you. :moon:
 
jellyrug said:
Being pissed is unfortunately going to get you nowhere fast.

Tell her to facebook, or email the naked chick back if she does not believe you, to prove your innocence and ask her what she wants you to do, to make this right and to make it go away.

LOL, you have it easy, I started a sport bike club here online, six members joined and they were all girls. I ended up dropping the group, better safe than sorry.
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I didn't even get any naked pics....I never gave them my email or logged on to the link they sent.
 
Sorry for all your troubles.

My wife and I have an understanding, our email accounts and stuff like that are our (and not the other's) business. I trust her and she trusts me - and frankly it's just not worth all the drama. I'm not going to start playing PI with her; everyone is entitled to a little privacy, even spouses should have some things that belong to them and them only. I don't read her mail, texts, FB or any of that.

First off, both of you need to get the HELL OFF OF FACEBOOK. It has caused waaay too many problems for people. My wife has a FB account, I don't. I don't go check hers out even though I probably know the password. If she wants to leave me, there's the door don't let it hit you on the way out (but if you think you are leaving with my daughter without a fight you've got another thing coming). If she wanted to cheat, there's not a damn thing I could do to stop it, but she's clear on what the repercussions are. As am I.

I don't think each of you peeking into each other's stuff is healthy in the long run. She knew when she married you that she'd have to put up with you being in contact with your ex regarding the kids, and visa versa. Get over it. All this jealousy and doubt is self-destructive. You have to wonder what's put the bug up her azz because it's likely its something else.

Lastly, and you can't ask her this outright, but where is she at in your monthly cycle; my wife has her 'crazy' week and I can usually tell when that is...
 
All is well again……
I told her sorry that I was being an insensitive jerk and not doing a better job of explaining it last night and she apologized for being all sensitive and blaming me for nothing. Now all of a sudden I’m making it up to her by taking her to see that new girly move The Vow. How come she’s not taking me to see some blow em’ up bang bang movie!


She drives me crazy, but Im no saint so whatca going to do????
 
I disagree. Media such as Facebook on bring to light the weaknesses already there. If something as simple as that ends a relationship it was already doomed. Of course that is my opinion.
 
lil charlie said:
All is well again……
I told her sorry that I was being an insensitive jerk and not doing a better job of explaining it last night and she apologized for being all sensitive and blaming me for nothing. Now all of a sudden I’m making it up to her by taking her to see that new girly move The Vow. How come she’s not taking me to see some blow em’ up bang bang movie!


She drives me crazy, but Im no saint so whatca going to do????
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skydivr said:
Lastly, and you can't ask her this outright, but where is she at in your monthly cycle; my wife has her 'crazy' week and I can usually tell when that is...
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That’s a big part of it. Our son is almost 18 months old and I think she has only has 3 periods since he was born. The docs (3 of them) have been placing her on different meds to try to stabilize her hormones. She knows they are all out of whack and apologizes for it from time to time.
 
lil charlie said:
All is well again……
I told her sorry that I was being an insensitive jerk and not doing a better job of explaining it last night and she apologized for being all sensitive and blaming me for nothing. Now all of a sudden I’m making it up to her by taking her to see that new girly move The Vow. How come she’s not taking me to see some blow em’ up bang bang movie!


She drives me crazy, but Im no saint so whatca going to do????
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Good job man, shows you how powerful all the advice here on the org was.:laugh:

Blondonabusa, stay away from my facebook.!:rulez:
 
Glad you worked things out. Next time don't tell her she is being silly when she is emotional!!!!! Not good! :laugh:
 
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