Relationships nowadays
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Forgiveness is not for the other person.
It is for YOU.
The hard feelings we hold against someone do not affect them...but they eat us up inside. Which in turn leads to many problems, and it is proven how stress affects us physically, not just mentally.
Which is why God wants us to overlook an offense, and forgive.
Is it easy? Most always not.
We enjoy giving you a hard time here, but in good fun.
We know you have a stressful job.
Most of us can relate to your struggles.
Most of us are older.
I think all of our comments were meant with good intentions.
Life is truly what you make of it, perspective is everything, and we are usually our own worst enemy.
And fyi, I'm 41, married 11 years in a few weeks, together over 15, and known her for 19. She's a great girl, will be 35 this year.
We a have a 7 year old daughter.
...and I could go home and strangle her...just because she's a woman, lol!
I'm a hypocrit and screw up, no doubt, but my faith in God always gets me through.
Would I want to be single now days? No way!
Well, maybe as a hermit, one woman is enough work,
ali123
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I guess... My father says he knew the MOMENT he was gonna marry my mom..... BUT I think my father throws out a lot of bullshit too........ like he says that one time he actually met Jesus Christ.... and jesus told him he was gonna live to be 84.....If you couldn't do that with her there, it wasn't meant to be...
ali123
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13 more years till hes 84... but ill tell ya this... if it ends up being true... I'm gonna start going to church.
I bet she was ok with everything but you being naked, Lol!
ali123
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like I said arch..... everything above the belt is fine.... that was borderline...... I told u she called me? I'm not answering................... I tried to make this work out for years..... its allllllll me.... she hasn't even worked in 2 years.... or gone to school...... I would love it if she TRIED to help...... I would have taken care of her forever if she just even bullshitted me....
What really scares me Ali is I like a lot of the music you been posting. I'm basically a Soul, R & B and 70's rock guy. I built in-home studios for a couple artists for a couple years, so I got my tastes "updated". Man what a nasty industry. I realized you probably had to be packing to get your money from most of these guys.
ali123
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but that's just it..... that's what people don't understand.. these guys live by a different code....... its a bizarre world...... the strong will survive...... and that's it.... its just how it goes...... even though they struck it rich..... that hood poop really never goes away..... I try not to listen to rap/hiphop music.... but a lot of the old stuff is in my blood.... when u grow up in the projects..... no matter how fast u run.... .............. its hard to change things.....LIKe to give an example... no matter how much money I make... even if I was a millionaire.... home cooked steak for me.... ribeye.... mac and cheese/ french-fries..... I went out to a fancy restaurant and I ordered something simple.... so I got salmon.. mild fish, should have been good right?????? WRONG..... I was throwing up an hour later... I have an uneducated pallet... and I cant change it.... I LOVE the tupac stuff.... biggie..... I cant change that.... it looks crazy when I sing along with the poop.... but I don't care........ lol.. I don't have a cell phone/ I dress like its 1997 and I like what I like.
ali123
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I had a 16 year old kid on my block(housing unit)..... and I gave him his initial phone call.... I locked everyone in because it was almost count time.... and I see the kid tearing up.... hes still talking with his mom/now hes starts to be visibly emotional.... So I know I HAVE TO do something...... so I go out there.... grab the phone out of his hand/hang it up.... I grabbed him by his shirt and basicallty dragged him into the slop sink area/back room.... I get him back there... now its only me and him... I tell the kid.... YOU HAVE TO GET IT TOGETHER.... I proceed to tell him that I'm gonna yell.. and he HAS TO yell back.... I really believe I saved that kids life..... If thoise guys saw that kid crying.... that would have been it for him...... I gave him my speech...... U ACT LIKE A MAN AND U WILL BE TREATED LIKE A MAN..................... BUT never ever ever ever ever SHOW WEAKNESS... I don't know whjat the kid got involved with... but obviously.... someone must have died......... but CLEARLY he was breaking down the first day.......... like I say..... its a different world that a person cannot possibly understand until one has experienced it...... I know I'm not truly heartless because I HELPED that kid..... I guess at some point we all need help.... Ive also seen commissary accounts with 500K in them......... doctors/cops... there is no ONE TYPE.... some people just get involved in something they shouldn't have and make bad decisions....
Funny story: People used to call me "cry-baby" because when I got mad I would start to cry and that meant you best clear out because I was about to open a can of Whoop-arse. I got into a fight at the bus stop one day. Some guys were picking on me and one guy slapped the back of my head. I started crying and then proceeded to basically crush the four guys. Put one of them in the hospital. After that I was known everywhere respectfully as cry-baby and no one made me cry. Very funny because I am a very non-violent person and almost never get mad. I guess the tears were me losing my control and passing into animal mode. Thank god that didn't happen too much, would have had a much different life.
ali123
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when I was 16 that happened to me... broke the kids orbital bone.... still remember the kids name Dan Vinton.... I got sued..... well.... my guardian got sued..... same year.... my father and I got into in and he swung and missed me... hit him with a beautiful left hook... broke three of his ribs..... that was the last beating I took from my father..... he said when he would hiccup.... he could feel em move... I guess its really really painful.... then I developed a love for boxing......
ali123
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I'm the opposite arch... I love the combat.... and other than an unbelievable body shot.....diaphragm shot really... I don't feel the shots.... I never took a knee.... and only real ass whoopings I took were in the gym..... when I just couldn't hit the guy.... 12 ounce gloves really slow a person up........ its an unbelievably hard sport.......
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