Woman trouble (Am I wrong?)

anyway.... follow your instincts... (the heart is a lousy GPS)


Couldnt have put it better myself!! i see your location says rustburg, va. my parents live in nelson. im always in lynchburg riding! Maybe we can go get find a decent woman for both of us :laugh:
 
Thanks guys for all the help. Its so nice to just vent!! No i don't think all riders are trashy and nor do i think that of her. A few things she has said to my friends the first time she met them it did cross my mind. Yes i have talked with her about things and she says i am trying to control her. I see it as just wanting a respectful woman. She did not show most of this until later in our relationship. It seems i only got to see some of it a little at a time. I will admit i have issues to i mean who doesn't after a few relationships but i still feel i know right from wrong and treat a lady like i want to be treated. I shut down with her after being accused of doing so many things (that i never did) i just felt i could not win. I have known this was coming for a while but sometimes you just get tired of trying ya know. I am one that has never drank done drugs and things but with my life style it seems that is all the lady's i can meet anymore. Anyway now looking for a new home for me and my busa:laugh: Thanks so much guys!! I feel so much better anyway.
 
Couldnt have put it better myself!! i see your location says rustburg, va. my parents live in nelson. im always in lynchburg riding! Maybe we can go get find a decent woman for both of us :laugh:

I live just outside of Lynchburg for now but yes we can get togather just let me know.
 
Have you thought she could be a bi-polar if this is the case. You mention that she's very flirtatious and touchy-feelly with your friends. Loud and Vulgar? Sounds like Bi-Polar Mania to me.

Good thought.. She was dumped by her ex and get's a tone of alimony with a lot of hatred for him.
 
I actually return to nc friday from deployment,.But a friend of mine in lynchburg has my bike so i am coming up next weekend. Im not sure what the weather is like up there right now but you can bet after 7months of no riding and being in the desert i am taking her for a spin!
 
I think you answered all your own questions. As others have said people do not change. You will only find a facade that appears to have changed, but before long you would see the true person again.
 
Dude, if you are to the point that you are posting in here to ask, then yea, it is time to cut your losses & move onward & upward.

If she is grinning with your friends, she may be sinning with your friends :whistle:

Don't take any chances.

Great point.
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I actually return to nc friday from deployment,.But a friend of mine in lynchburg has my bike so i am coming up next weekend. Im not sure what the weather is like up there right now but you can bet after 7months of no riding and being in the desert i am taking her for a spin!

Its raining here now but call me when you get here and we will see what we can do K 434 401 3212 Not sure how long i will have a computer. I am Doug
 
Lets see.....she farts, flirts, & burps ???

I'd drop her like a bad habit! To many fish in the sea.

Sorry it doesn't appear to be working out. But why should you compromise?
 
I've lived for a while in some unrewarding relationships.

It's amazing what you can get used to isn't it ?

Now, just imagine that you work in a bakery and it's a fine Sunday morning, there is a line out the door.

Everyone has taken those little # cards, so all you need to do is yell "next" and you will be on your way. :thumbsup:

(It's a metaphor ) hope you get it. ???
 
Thanks guys for all the help. Its so nice to just vent!! No i don't think all riders are trashy and nor do i think that of her. A few things she has said to my friends the first time she met them it did cross my mind. Yes i have talked with her about things and she says i am trying to control her. I see it as just wanting a respectful woman. She did not show most of this until later in our relationship. It seems i only got to see some of it a little at a time. I will admit i have issues to i mean who doesn't after a few relationships but i still feel i know right from wrong and treat a lady like i want to be treated. I shut down with her after being accused of doing so many things (that i never did) i just felt i could not win. I have known this was coming for a while but sometimes you just get tired of trying ya know. I am one that has never drank done drugs and things but with my life style it seems that is all the lady's i can meet anymore. Anyway now looking for a new home for me and my busa:laugh: Thanks so much guys!! I feel so much better anyway.

congratulations on making a good decision...for yourself.

its not a crime to want to be happy, you owe it to yourself.

you will find you a good woman, they are out there.
 
Your in trouble, call for standby and move her out and watch your back. document everything, and record everything. good luck and be carefull.
 
Lots of good single ladies out there... Look at me for example! Hehe!

All I seem to meet in my city are DB's so I just enjoy my friends and ride the heck out of my bike waiting for God to put the crazy dude in front of me that I am supposed to spend my life with.

You should find someone who makes you want to be a better person, just cause you want to see them smile. :thumbsup:

Take your time and really learn who they are...there is someone out there looking for someone just like you!
 
Lets see.....she farts, flirts, & burps ???
:rofl: Catches my breath :rofl:

Lettuce sea... She must be some munch monster is wash that grub down. Needs a H-D to tow her around.

I'm an old fart and proud to say I was never married. I love "Lust" not what follows. So, I pretty much averaged an 8 month fling with the female species.

I know down the road, she is going to wonder her eyes like myself is look for something new. Not hang for 3 years worth of farts and burps.

The trick I learned is that once she stops moaning and completes a sentence, that pretty much throws LUST right out the window. Speaking about windows...

And in your case, your windows must be open for fresh air I would imagine. The moans are now burps. I mean, how many more signs do you need? It's over. Tell her to take her hot azzcrack :moon: outside so you can close the windows for winter. :thumbsup:
 
Lots of good single ladies out there... Look at me for example! Hehe!

All I seem to meet in my city are DB's so I just enjoy my friends and ride the heck out of my bike waiting for God to put the crazy dude in front of me that I am supposed to spend my life with.

You should find someone who makes you want to be a better person, just cause you want to see them smile. :thumbsup:

Take your time and really learn who they are...there is someone out there looking for someone just like you!

Should i come to FL?? I am always up for a good road trip. Thanks for the advice
 
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