The second one! 2.5 years wasted on this crazy one! I am only going to go into the things that made me walk away! If not run! First, how would you feel if you had to walk away from your friends and family, because they thought they were bad influences! This didnt happen all at once. It was a slow process I didnt see right away! And that person wanted all of you and wouldnt share you with anyone. Second, questioned everything you did to the point it started fights and me second guessing of everything I did! Third, to have some one insult you and your family in front of their family, when they are not there to defends themselves. Fourth, This lady had the nerve to get down on her knees to ask me to marry her, knowing I wanted to be the one to do that! It was weird! Fifth, someone tell you I am 90% happy with you, buts the last 10% I am worried about! Sixth, She was worried I was taking her friends away from her, when all I did was offered to help them and they would call her to ask for me! Seven, it got to the point that I couldnt be myself and do any of the things that made me happy. Eight.... the straw that broke the camels back. How would you to have this question asked for you to answer! " If you and I have a daughter? Would you f#$k Her?" Show stopper for me! Insulted me like no other person has ever done! I was you got to be kidding! I find out that her father did some very bad things to her when she was younger after she asked me that. She could of told me in a much better way then finding out that way! Thoughs are the highlights! That was almost 2 years ago! Now I am just trying to have fun with the current G/F and take each day at a time!