I hate to tell you dude, but if you really need major work done to the engine and a new front end, your bike is totalled. Board members are awesome around here and help others out all the time, but the type of repairs you need are way past what the typical board member has laying around.
We need WAY more info on what's damaged. A scanned estimate from the shop and pics will go a long ways around here.
Now I feel there is a REAL need to say this.
I'm assuming you haven't taken a MSF course like everyone recommended to you. If you had, they would have taught you how to brake in an emergency. Bottom line, if the person in front of you can stop that fast, SO CAN YOU!
A crash a month. You need to just leave it alone for a while, get healed up. Make some more money, because you still run high odds of crashing again. And this has nothing to do with you, but rather new riders in general. The first 6 months are the most dangerous.
Take a MSF class, buy full gear(helmet/jacket/pants/boots/gloves), and leave yourself lots of space and ways out in traffic.